Hello_you: I wouldn't marry for money. I guess one wieghs everything up when choosing a partner and it's possible it may tip the scales but probably wouldn't come into concideration that much.
Would huge debts on the other's part alter your choice?
The short answer is no...
I met a wee girl in paris many moons ago with a 'debt'...never knew that when we first met..her 'ex' made a mess and when i knew the score, i re-structured the debt worked longer hours and helped her pay it off..
Twisting your words a bit (with respect)...if a girl had more money than me (if this is macho ...sorry), but i doubt if i could go out with her.
I'm being straight here folks..personally i don't care about money and if i have the cash in my pocket(bank account) and the wee girl i'm with wants something i'll pay....But i don't like girls picking up my tab...I don't know if that makes sense..I really don't care..It's just me...
Ok, if I go out for a night and she buys me a pint oor invites me to a restaurant the odd time fair enough, but I have old fashioned principles..kinda like blokes open doors for girls, give them your coat cause they are cold or if there is a pool of water you put your jacket on the puddle so she doesn't get her feet wet....