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Someone corrupted me and forcibly dragged me onto them many moons ago .. However, I still hold onto part of my innocence

I only make guest appearances to them though, my true commitment lies here, to fulfil my presidentialess duties to CS land

Have been near to that point - But other things happened. - Saved me from having to break my vow to my kids!

Why on earth would you be slated? Ya silly moo (Meant in a nice way)

Only reason why I've had a F/bud, is cos I made vow to not have a serious relationship, (Another male in my house) till my youngest is atleast 18 Jeeez that is 10 yrs away

Works for some!

not knocking it hunni.... wish sometimes i had the guts to do that but im a simple girl with simple tastes...

agree with ya over the kids thing too.... i ant having uncles for my son either...thats why my profile is the way it is......

mill and boon Eh ! Wooooooooo
as a man and I do mean a real man not a plastic put batteries in for the night type.
Im domestic and patient. I came to the conclusion that being a fcuk witt was for the players
and someone got to clean up the mess. and I have the heart and Empathy not to fill that spot
since being 15 I've only ever had 4-5 relationships lasting between 5 and 10 yrs so I must be doing somthing right, of course I do get left for the fcuk buddy type losely labled as 'friends'
and as always they prove there worth when the poor Moo gets left holding there heart in taters
cause he's found a new toy to play with. I dare to care about the mess and heartbrake that leaves.
Im a good man and hold the foundations for for a sturdy and truthful life thats me ..

Mr old romantic, mills and boon living a simple stress free exsitance. and at peace with my self

so mwah ! get a good man and have your chocies and eat them to

gotta agree with u....

10 out of 10 mate

I like the morals and principles.

JoJo kids are more resilient than one would think. I made a similar vow to myself once upon a moon and now regret it like so many others. They didnt thank me for it, instead i got the opposite to hear not only from them but my side of the family as well. F/buds maybe fine at the time, but even they leave a mess to be cleared up by someone and normally its the family that has to do it cos ole F/bud has just f*cked off to the next toy. Isnt it just nice to have that someone consistant and true to one to build up on. I think so. One night stands dont mean move in together, and the "new one " cant replace the biological father but means its a case of the "new one" in your life has his work cut out with the kids as well. They will accept him when the kids see that you are happier and you are being treated right.

Yea, good points.

My friend spent the day with myself and my young daughter, we had a wonderful day a family day, something I have missed for way too long., My daughter accepted C as just a friend, by the afternoon they were friends, it reassured me that as and when I move away from here, when my daughter comes to visit me in a new and strange place she will have two people who she knows and feels comfortable with.

If it fails between me and C, then I also know that, this contact will not have affected her detrimentally, its no different to my taking her to a park where we end up chatting with others there.

I know kids are resiliant and can come to terms with lots of things!

But Dude1969 - You may think I am a f*ck wit! That is your opinion. Fairplay to ya. But do you remember that very personal statement you made earlier this yr, on the forums, about what happened to you when you were 6?? I could empathise, cos same happened to me as a kid. - So YOU of all people should realise why I don't want strangers around my kids! So where your mom failed to protect you and my mom failed to protect me - I will NOT fail in protecting my kids! And if that makes me a f**k wit So be it. And if it also means I miss the opppurtunity to have a stable loving relationship - So be that too!

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JoJo, In my honest opinion, no one who has ever taken the trouble to speak to you could come close to calling you a Fcuk wit, you are a delightful young woman, making some tough choices in life and a credit to your children, shame more mothers don't have your maternal instincts, you have to do what is right for you, not what someone else thinks is right, you could never life with yourself if you felt you had let your kids down, and full respect to you for that.

As I said before, having a No strings partner, can and does give great solace to someone who is not in the position, for whatever reason, to have a full relationship.
It is in my humble opinion, wrong to be judgemental of those of whom we know little about their individual circumstances.

you missed my point I was stating Im not comfy being a fcuk witt, I wasnt a personal slant at you.
just a point made, maybe my articulation of this point so If any of you ladies feel insulted by it please
accept my apology and word It wasnt intended as such... and a personal apology due
and respect owed !

No apology needed towards me.

This is not a life I would of chosen for myself, and is certainly not one I would want my kids to choose. (I would prob end up calling them feckwits myself if they acted like this) But like yourself sweety, certain circumstances in younger life, I feel I have no choice!

Those things with batteries are called vibrators, sex toys..I don't have a problem if a woman uses a vibrator..And i'm a bloke with 2 daughters and my mutt. Horses for courses....



I would like to think that most people are domesticated..Those with kids probably are. I agree with you a fcuk witt was for the players but a fcuk bud is totally different..I reckon you and a few others just don't like the term...As for you having the heart and Empathy to fill that spot
...Dude , i don't understand..the heart and empathy to fill what spot..A fcuk witt or fcuk bud?

A fcuk bud for me means someone who's there for you even if they are not. Although on the EU forum where i post we call them inter-european relationships. A lot of people today because of work comittments, location, family... lots of reasons can't or don't want a 24/7-365.
What they are looking for is someone to spend quality time with..without the hassle of 'everyday' life. Most people at our age have kids and are more concerned about their future than their own. But it doesn't stop them taking time out with someone and sharing their 'me' time with that person...Today you can be in any major city in europe with in hours..And it's not expensive..Ask Riz. Long weekends, a holiday maybe..an unexpected vist. But for it to work you have to set out the ground rules otherwise you are just buds..


You probably are getting lots of things right..and some things wrong("I do get left for the fcuk buddy type losely labled as 'friends".)




I'm sure you are and i'm sure you do...






so mwah ! get a good man and have your chocies and eat them to.


Thanks gussi, always count on a mucker...

JoJo,

i respect ur views about kids.....im the same with my son...no uncles thank u very much...he has a father ( usless as he maybe) so i dont need a father for my son but a male friend who will ( and the friend) respect each other.

We live in a world where nothing is taboo anymore everything is so up front...i wasnt brought up that way to be honest...its why i WONT do dirty talk and have made mistakes in doing this...( il admit i have done this but it ant me at all)

but i have to say JoJo u come across as a very nice person bubbley and fun and prob a great mate to ave a nite out with...

so u have ur views il have mine and everyone have theres coz it would be so bloody boring if we was all the same.....

so heres to u butty................

Bab, I have no problem with other peoples views - Even when they are about me - I say fairplay to them, cos I have prob brought it on myself!
I don't knock anyone for thier views - Unless I see them being outwardly nasty!

Treat me mean and evil...

still cant figure out how u brought it on urself hunni....u have a view u said it and well to be honest i admire ur honesty about the matter....

so keep on saying what ur saying on the forums hunni....coz i for one am getting an education......

this type of men Call it a game, games have loser's, and in my eyes its usualy the women left to hold a baby
or restict there emotional dependancy on that person "I here dont hate the players hate the game"
like its a fun thing. now really who's it fun for ! even now its I'll do this till mr right comes along !
this is just my point of view !




as above !



as the kind of man I am and the friends Ive ran to the aid of , Ive seen it all and Its not somthing I want to
have happen to my female friends so I keep them out my bed !
and feel honoured when I got a flat full off 20 somthing females running around comfy in the fact that they are safe. them being in a half undressed state or not !




as I said if the woman gets preg or wants somthing more then just sex, he'll go and leave her real boyfriend If she has one to tidy the mess that aint a friend is it really !

but this is just me.. I hope I got my articulation right its aimed at type not against a singular entity