Dude1969: I just spent £3000 on hosting an Xmas party. I spent 16 hours a day for the last 4 month working to save the money to provide for my friends a once in a life time party .... and Its ruined !
one Idiot got dumped for having sex in the toilets, very romantic... I mean a toilet! and his partner kicked off with the female she caught him with.
another male Idiot got arrested for sexual harassment because he went round untieing the halternecks of the women without bra's .
and a girl at has gone and cut her wrist ! as her boyfriend has sneaked off with the woman who got cheated on in the toilet ! not to mention the other usual problems of gate crashers ETC !
what can you do ???
In cold light of day there has arisen several facters,
1. the people responcible are waking on Xmas day in a police cell and not with there children.

2. the people that care about me have put up half the money to pay for the party.

3. I know who my real friends are.
4.the girl who cut her wrist came back to my flat after leaving hospital and has explained. it turned out to be an accident. she knocked a glass and It broke on a bottle as she went to grab it.
5. the gate crashers are to be prosicuted for tresspass by the the venue owner he took the registration of the cars and handed them to the police.
so to sum up I get half my money back, all problems have been handled and I got a woman staying with me till her now Ex has vacated his home of 6 yrs.. and my friends are taking care of new year.