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Dude1969 Rochdale, Lancs, Greater Manchester, England UK
Thu Jan 1, 2009 9:12 AM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
Its a new year, chance of a new start, reflect on ones life
and find truth in attitude and perception of yourself.

how do you see yourself, how do you think you failed yourself so far,
angel or devil


here's my tuth, my consistent mistakes with ALL
my former patners has been my inability to see my failings.
its somtimes to much to surround a person with affection and concideration at the sacrifice or oneself, it leaves the other feeling clostofobic within the relationship and choking on well meaning. I find it hard to tear myself away from doing the good guy thing and concentrate on what is needed to be done to keep the balance IE: letting her do things for me, paying for her own travel,clothes,food, and letting her show me affection without over doing the appreciation. a simple rose can say I love you just as much as doing everything and anything.

if you squeeze a handfull of sand too hard the inevitable is you end up with an empty hand ! sigh
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phoenix paris, Ile-de-France France
Thu Jan 1, 2009 9:29 AM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
Dude1969: Its a new year, chance of a new start, reflect on ones life
and find truth in attitude and perception of yourself.

how do you see yourself, how do you think you failed yourself so far,
or here's my tuth, my consistent mistakes with ALL
my former patners has been my inability to see my failings.
its somtimes to much to surround a person with affection and concideration at the sacrifice or oneself, it leaves the other feeling clostofobic within the relationship and choking on well meaning. I find it hard to tear myself away from doing the good guy thing and concentrate on what is needed to be done to keep the balance IE: letting her do things for me, paying for her own travel,clothes,food, and letting her show me affection without over doing the appreciation. a simple rose can say I love you just as much as doing everything and anything.

if you squeeze a handfull of sand too hard the inevitable is you end up with an empty hand !
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phoenix paris, Ile-de-France France
Thu Jan 1, 2009 9:31 AM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !

Dude1969: if you squeeze a handfull of sand too hard the inevitable is you end up with an empty hand !


Sorry dude pressed the wrong button....

If you squeeze a lump of coal long enough you'll have a diamond....Think positive..Happy new year
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Dude1969 Rochdale, Lancs, Greater Manchester, England UK
Thu Jan 1, 2009 10:06 AM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
phoenix: Sorry dude pressed the wrong button....

If you squeeze a lump of coal long enough you'll have a diamond....Think positive..Happy new year


I am thinking positive, I know the problem and know the solution.
being to good. and nice scare's the crap out of some women.
and being a hard man all the time is just counter produtive.
finding a balance is the start to a new beginning. acting on it is the hardest part...

good luck for the year, I hope you find the key to solice and contentment. and a good woman to share it with.

James cool
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ducattimattie rhyl, Clwyd, Wales UK
Thu Jan 1, 2009 11:08 AM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
you got that rite fellas but a lady will move the goal posts on ya aswell my exwife fell for me coz i was a soft touch and would do any thing for her. but after a few years she changed her wants to the hard man type so inevetably we split,so is this my fault for being a softy or hers for changing.............
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Zellarrone1 Hull, Humberside, England UK
Thu Jan 1, 2009 12:51 PM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
ducattimattie: you got that rite fellas but a lady will move the goal posts on ya aswell my exwife fell for me coz i was a soft touch and would do any thing for her. but after a few years she changed her wants to the hard man type so inevetably we split,so is this my fault for being a softy or hers for changing.............
Maybe it was none of your faults professor ... Could be you just outgrew each other, loads of marriages don't last forever, so don't take it too personally comfort

Plenty of more fish in the sea anyway, you just need to make sure your rods long enough to reel them in laugh

And always remember the "Golden Rule" ... if you can't have the one you love, then love the one you're with professor

Happy 2009 beer
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Zellarrone1 Hull, Humberside, England UK
Thu Jan 1, 2009 1:03 PM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
Zellarrone1: Maybe it was none of your faults ... Could be you just outgrew each other, loads of marriages don't last forever, so don't take it too personally

Plenty of more fish in the sea anyway, you just need to make sure your rods long enough to reel them in

And always remember the "Golden Rule" ... if you can't have the one you love, then love the one you're with

Happy 2009
Oh yeah, whilst I'm in here... I may as well post my "Self Perception of myself 2008 and failings that go with it" ...

hmmm I would say, my behaviour and attitude has been quite perfect throughout 2008 in the real world. Although I have had to deal with a few @r$eholes but their anal attitude was obviously their problem not mine and with a few of my stealth tactics and the helping hand of karma. I came off best in the end cool

As for 2009, I don't intend changing at all for anyone.. and if people don't like it.. then it's their problem conversing

pointing Self perceived perfectionist innocent
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jojo69 Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK
Fri Jan 2, 2009 8:42 PM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
Zellarrone1: Oh yeah, whilst I'm in here... I may as well post my "Self Perception of myself 2008 and failings that go with it" ...

I would say, my behaviour and attitude has been quite perfect throughout 2008 in the real world. Although I have had to deal with a few @r$eholes but their anal attitude was obviously their problem not mine and with a few of my stealth tactics and the helping hand of karma. I came off best in the end

As for 2009, I don't intend changing at all for anyone.. and if people don't like it.. then it's their problem

Self perceived perfectionist


Zell, you are an amazing lady! Love ya!!


My self perception!!! Is as always what I tell people!!! Push me into a corner and be nasty with me. And I am a cow with my gob!!!! I will continuse to be the mother that I am, cos regardless of how crap I think I am, I must be doing something ok! As my kids are top of class (can show you reports if ya want? LOL) They don't get into trouble! And are balanced human beings (Don't get me wrong, can be lil feckers at times too!!)
So Self perception?? I will be me - Will leave the 'perception' up to you lot!!!!!

hug
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Dude1969 Rochdale, Lancs, Greater Manchester, England UK
Fri Jan 2, 2009 9:57 PM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
jojo69: !My self perception!!! Is as always what I tell people!!! Push me into a corner and be nasty with me. And I am a cow with my gob!!!! I will continuse to be the mother that I am, cos regardless of how crap I think I am, I must be doing something ok! As my kids are top of class (can show you reports if ya want? LOL) They don't get into trouble! And are balanced human beings (Don't get me wrong, can be lil feckers at times too!!)
So Self perception?? I will be me - Will leave the 'perception' up to you lot!!!!!


I wouldnt say your a cow with your gob, your quite right on, stand up for yourself. aint nothing wrong with that !

mwah ! good luck and all the best for 2009
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jojo69 Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK
Fri Jan 2, 2009 10:02 PM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
Dude1969: I wouldnt say your a cow with your gob, your quite right on, stand up for yourself. aint nothing wrong with that !

mwah ! good luck and all the best for 2009


Thank you xx (I know.... well we both know... There will be others whom will disagree with you!!) But Thank you! Best of luck to you and yours in 2009!!

hug cheers teddybear Jo
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Dude1969 Rochdale, Lancs, Greater Manchester, England UK
Fri Jan 2, 2009 10:47 PM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
jojo69: Thank you xx (I know.... well we both know... There will be others whom will disagree with you!!) But Thank you! Best of luck to you and yours in 2009!!

Jo



we've had a one or two missunderstandings. and you've never been over aggresive or vindictive.

you gave me chance to exsplane, apologise or whatever. and accepted/ trusted my word. and then played it all down.

your a babe... true to reality teddybear

Shhh ! you know I thought you was only about 26 !
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jojo69 Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK
Fri Jan 2, 2009 11:07 PM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
Dude1969: we've had a one or two missunderstandings. and you've never been over aggresive or vindictive.

you gave me chance to exsplane, apologise or whatever. and accepted/ trusted my word. and then played it all down.

your a babe... true to reality

Shhh ! you know I thought you was only about 26 !



JAMES!!! Behave ya self and stop being a charmer!! LOL

All joking apart, we have had slight ermm confliction, but we have sorted it... We are still mates! hug

As for trusting your word??? You know I do! hug teddybear
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gussi Marburg, Hessen Germany
Wed Jan 7, 2009 8:06 AM CST : truth ! share what you percieve about yourself !
Quote:-- Push me into a corner and be nasty with me. And I am a cow with my gob!!!! Unquote..


OMG sounds like dream conditions.



bouquet
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