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ocean_1: Here the script:
You just start to know this lady here en CS.
First she emailed you so many time that you can just manage to reply in time.
She tell you how nice you are and that you put smile en her face.
And you didn’t do or said anything bad to change this opinion.
02 days after, you take risk at work thinking it is worth it, you email the lady, try to IM her but she ignore you totally.
You can see she read the emails that you sent but no reply to you enquiry.

You just want to know what the sudden change about and if you have to shut this door and open another new one somewhere else.
I mean so far there was nothing serious, it was just the start.
So how do you react to this?
Are you gonna ignore every thing and forget about it?
Or tell the person who the hell she think she is?

dance_with_me: You can see she read the emails that you sent but no reply to you enquiry.

The probable reason is that she didn't like what you wrote in your e-mail.

ocean_1: Here the script:
You just start to know this lady here en CS.
First she emailed you so many time that you can just manage to reply in time.
She tell you how nice you are and that you put smile en her face.
And you didn’t do or said anything bad to change this opinion.
02 days after, you take risk at work thinking it is worth it, you email the lady, try to IM her but she ignore you totally.
You can see she read the emails that you sent but no reply to you enquiry.

You just want to know what the sudden change about and if you have to shut this door and open another new one somewhere else.
I mean so far there was nothing serious, it was just the start.
So how do you react to this?
Are you gonna ignore every thing and forget about it?
Or tell the person who the hell she think she is?

stocktonian: ignore her if she isnt bothered why should him if she was true she would of answered the emails and used the im to talk with him

Sparklingeyes: She did talk to him on IM, at great length. But when being called stupid and laughed at, why shoud she bother?

stocktonian: ignore her if she isnt bothered why should him if she was true she would of answered the emails and used the im to talk with him

Sparklingeyes: She did talk to him on IM, at great length. But when being called stupid and laughed at, why shoud she bother?

ocean_1: It is not like that.
This is how it is happened;
She did talk to him on IM, at great length, suddenly, she ignore his many emails to understand what happened and IM requests.
Come on people, you do react when you think some one is ignoring you many times on purpose . It just reaction to an action.

ocean_1: You are so clever, I didn't thought of that.
Come on they were freindly emails.
I think, I am calling it a day for this one.
Cheers for the reply

dance_with_me: It's not about being friendly, it's about what a women finds in your words. If it's nothing interesting then she will not reply.
Don't get surprised if it happens again.

Zellarrone1: Is that a polite way of telling him he's boring?

Zellarrone1: Is that a polite way of telling him he's boring?

Zellarrone1: Is that a polite way of telling him he's boring?

ocean_1: Look who is talking, The third women is chatting rubbish. It is not a surprise, due to laziness to read what before they jump to conclusion. But what you can say, women are women.

phoenix: I reckon it happened like this..you IM'd SE and spoke for a while...Then You PM'd her and for lots of reasons she (SE) didn't have time to reply(chrimbo, new year..family reunions) and you got the hump...

Ocean with respect you are french and french male logic doesn't work on UK women..It doesn't work on french women(french male logic)trust me i've been living here for 15yrs..I know somethings..About french logic...

Like i said....

1....Crank up your jukebox
2....Open up a bottle of plonk
3....Jump onto to thread
4....Butter the ladies up on a thread/s
5....Let them contact you(very important...not the other way around)

It's fail safe