MrRespect: Um...all I said was we were only getting one side of the story..out of fairness and perhaps I just meant it would be interesting to see him defend himself if hes so bad, I mean sometimes seeing a liar squirm is fun. Theres no need to be defensive, I hate rats as much as the next person, I just think theres a difference between warning folk and continuing a bitter, lengthy tirade, kinda makes you look a little "fatal attraction" like, why not just chill, learn from the experience and move on. Youve done your part by warning others, now its a little overkill and making you look a bit obsessive and may deter other men from contacting you because of your inability to move on and look at life in a more laid back way.
totally agree with what uve said....i only put up the post when it became very clear he was back on site......
as for fatal attraction....maybe u should IM me and ask me about the last abusive tw** i was with.....
ive moved on.....i just keep finding the "Hewitts" on this site....
life is too short to worry about whats happened, although it plays a role coz scars go deep but i have a disabled child too...seems to put alot of men off.......im still a woman......in fact a single parent doing sommat not many people would want too....
shallow is as shallow does on that score.....
no offence to anyone
