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I met someone a few years ago that during the first actual DATE, started talking about moving in together. I told her that I didn't think it was going to work out between us.

Did she break the sound barrier walking out the door?

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wow! i dont feel so bad! lol

I met a guy like that one. He was out so fast I am sure his head is still spinning.

tell me more!

We met on a dating site and corresponded for a little while. Then we went out to lunch and had a pleaant time. He brought me back home, came in, looked around the place and said it was very nice.

He said that had just gotten divorced and moved back to Illinois. He complained about his apartment being bare, he was still looking for a job, his ex huge fat wife weighing 150 pounds -so do I mind you but I am tall- said he would be very comfortable at my place and that he could easily get use to have BBQs here often.

The following day, he called. He had made plans for me to BBQ for us and other plans that included me catering on him.

Hey, after I took care of a sick husband for 13 years, I was not about to cater on a healthy man no matter how terrific he was. If anyone needed some TLC it was me.

OK!!...How many people out there heard the "TWILIGHT ZONE" music,while siting with there "NEW FRIEND"?
"SOME" people are good and mean well,...BUT!! Then there are THOSE OTHER ones that you can't think of an escape route fast enough!!
I have learned,by my own fault,DON"T invite anyone to your place for the first meeting or date,'cause all of a sudden "Hey,I could really get used to living here with this nice view........RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!


Oh ya,...don't run,...it's YOUR place!!

good one! thanks man!

Yes, my comments are that a needy person will always be needy; they're like leeches - it feels like you have to peel them off.

I ended a 3 1/2 yr. relationship once because he got too needy - wanted me to "fix" him when he was "struggling" which seemed to happen every weekend (you see, his wife of 44 yrs died on a weekend 5 yrs. ago; he (said) wasn't eating unless I invited him for a meal; he would also meet with 3 different "friends" during the week and they would buy him "lunch" also ...you get the picture.

It got too suffocating, I didn't have any personal space; he knew my schedule better than I did & would knock at my door...

When you first see too much neediness, just leg go, FAST - you won't get anywhere with that kind of person, they're totally selfish!

That's my opinion and I'll stick to my story. Have a good day, y'all & Take Care.

As i say. it was flattering at first. she had come from a loveless marriage and i think she craved the attention. To the point it drove me away. As you say..peel them off. lol

i was actually posted in Trenton along time ago (dating myself big time), i left eighteen years ago.
Some people apparently move pretty quickly!!!

YEAH, same thing happened to me...at first it was WOW, HOW SWEET IS THIS????????/

but when I ws SUFFOCATING...it was time to "beat it"......

WANTING is a nice thought but needing is just too damn emotionally consuming....

JMO

Curvy

lol u have a needy person just run run forest run they are crazy ppl just run

Yes i rememebr suffocating too, lol. she has also claimed she loved me after 5 days.

desperate and needy run faster betta still catch train it faster lol

hahaha! beleive me i did! still trying to understand it all!

lol dont try to understand it iv been in that situation best forget it and move on otherwise ul b scard for life lol: ::wink:

lol. thanks for the advice!

ur welcome anytime just ask sass lol