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any other stories out there??? what makes them so clingy????

HEY seeker, at least she waited FIVE days...

how about the next freaking day...when you only spent THREE hours with that person, say g'nite and then get home to get a freaking message that "I LOVE YOU...TRULY I DO"""

.I was FLABBERGASTED....

and all I can think is "press 7, delete the freaking message and nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnext!"



geesh...had me running for the hills....and we don't have many of those in T.O. !!!!

>>>>>>> REALLY NEEDED ONE OF THESE

curvy

I think they are so needy as they don't have alot of self confidance. Also, i beleive that those that are needy let thier past relationship experiences rule how they proceed with new relationships.
I dated an individual for two years. The neediness kind of killed whatever feeling was there. Compassion is nice, but, it can only go so far because, it seems difficult for needy people to "become unneedy".
I think that i must draw needy people, so now i am making sure that if i decide to date, self confidance is a must, or i don't think that i will bother.

haha! wow im starting to feel better! thanks all! Keep em coming!

lol keep runnin. hey there mr howz it going???????

ahhhh...needy due to lack of self confidence...perhaps...i think mine was needy due to lack of affection or attention from her last relationship...thoughts anyone?

sum ppl are just born needy and they get more needy as time goes on

i think i like a clingly lady im a hugger myself so it feels good one of the best things in life is a genuine two titty hug,love the feeling on two levels psy an mental yyyyyyeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaayyyyy

ahhh so a needy person to you is a compliment. i had thought the same for a while but got creepy.

more thoughts anyone?

well, speaking only for myself, lack of affection or attention, in my marriage (thankfully that is over ), just made me way more independant. So....maybe for some it works that way, actually maybe for alot.

Interesting..,.thankfully she has moved on!!! :)

sounds like you have had a tough spring seeker

I think some people are simply emotional vampires and suck iit out of wherever they can find it.

Soemtimes, though, it might be just a little help along the way. But if it continues and becomes all consumeing get the garlic out! lol