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You need to believe in yourself first inorder for anything to happen. You have to let go and let God!

yes i have learnt that cause i'd not let go properly i couldn't move on .now i have done this i feel im in a better place to have a loving relationship.

3 meet somone kinda nice
4 spend some time gitten to kno her
5 do what feels good for both
6 whaddya doin readin this git out there and have some fun , the sun is settin on our world soon ppl like us will b e looking at the lawn not from the green side but from the roots,go to bingo ,chek out some of the bags that hang out there . chek out the legion, there not all 80.my big brother told me that the best place to pick up chiks was church cause there mothers think your a good guy and they relax a bit . or a better way is to post on c s lots and get your personality out there .no whining and wingeing. be up attitude. nother thing , canada forums is pretty dead,but i always go here cause im can. the good place is international forums . a lot of ppl from can went inter and never posted here again. you can tell cause there is a look counter on the site ,they look but never say a thing. cmon ppl post and talk befor the can forum goes completly dead.
thus sayth gordy the old sillyfosifer
thus endith my sunday morning once in a while rant

thankyou mychelle

i reply to you directly

Dear sweetvelvet

i did try to send you a reply to mailbox but i am blocked..ok no problem..

very valuable advise and i treasure it...thankyou so very much..

truely

kds

dude...thanks for your words

thanks you really gave me something i needed


kds

How long after divorce a person takes .... depends on the person. Healing must take place before you find the right what you are looking for. As annoying as that sounds, it's true.

Please continue to post on the forums. Some people have found it helps them vent, learn, heal, and in some cases find that special person. For others, it helped them through some rough stuff, and helped them be able to meet someone. You might not meet that special someone on line, but being here can help.

Don't worry about ranting, you might be surprised how many other people feel the same way.

Good luck in your search.

thank you for your reply....it really means a lot to me...

i am glad you have found your match!

kds

Oh my God, I picked the wrong emoticon .. I wanted to say it takes forever to get over divorce. When your health fails you even get more miserable and lonely. There is no hope of moving on.

Hi neighbour! For the most part, when I do have some spare time do come on and post or reply or whatever. Sometimes I just read, because it gets to the point that one isn't really sure of what to say and how caustic the replies will be. I think several of us try to start posts about various topics, but nobody responds! Maybe if someone would start (I say this in sarcastic jest mind you) a thread such as POLL: Who likes anal sex more? Canadians or Americans? We could get some action going.
The atmosphere has changed about 360 degrees on this site...for whatever reasons...and I agree Gordy, people should put their supposed differences aside or what have you and start interacting!

After my mom died of cancer my Dad kept company with a lady who was there helping him through the bad times. After 6 months they moved in together and 6 months later got married. He felt lonely and did not want to be by himself and it did work out for them.

Okay, my two cents worth...Something like a marriage is a huge part of one's life and when that marriage dissolves, along with it goes lost hopes, dreams, wishes and wants. Most people grieve this loss, in a very similar way that one would grieve a death - because it is a very significant loss. Thus, most will go through all the stages of grief, in various degrees. And that is okay, because it means you are human and it means you feel. In my opinion, I think you get to the point where you really feel nothing at all - the anger is gone - kind of indifferent, you know. You can see that there were good times and love at one time and that for what ever reason, it did not work - you are you and deserve to continue on your life's journey. And when you are whole and healthy and can say it doesn't matter any more, when you have let go - you are ready! And there is no time line....But it does happen!!!

please see the comments posted by my new good friend gordy 22222 found in this thread..good looking



thanks for your reply...it means a lot to me.. a whole lot .

thanks i started this as a poll

thanks

and it did work out for them

thankyou

again you reinforce the need to let go... i am going to have a letting go party...break the empty 25 year anniversary wine bottles and other acts of letting go....


thanks a lot