Been there,Done that,yadayada!! One thing for sure is,don't go from one EXTREME to another.Don't go and join a Cult group,easy on the booze,(Impairds REALLY SUCK),don't go all religious,if you haven't gotten rid of the anger yet,go out in the woods and scream your head off,it really works!Everything in moderation for a while,don't think that the Next girl that comes along will be "THE ONE" because you're going to have a few rebounders!
There's only so much self pity

and blame,that your friends can handle,so don't keep this up for too long

There's going to be alot of "Dating" going on,so get in the stream of things and swim! The "PERFECT ONE" won't just show up at your door,(unless your buddies got a couple hundred bucks together,nudge nudge)so you have to put yourself out there,or here!
Best of luck,'cause we're all looking for the same thing!
MIKE!