john1903: because i can't get a date
How long have you been on CS? Don't worry, it's not your looks. In the summer, CS activities and people getting hooked up slows down.
Best advise given to me... you trip over a few relationship (or kiss 1,000 frogs) before you find the right one.
Sorry if I sound like a parent giving you advise but, give it time, you might meet some one here or off line. It will happen when it's supposed to. :-)