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If my partner was to cheat on me, I could only wish her to remain with her lover....each of them then wondering....one day, down the road thinking, perhaps worrying, if the other was to remain faithful.

What goes around, comes around. Karma comes to cheaters too.

This is a good thread that really got going on...

Appreciate the effort to discuss the topic here.





I would have to evaluate the situation before a choice could be made.

There is no excuse for cheating , and there is no way to forgive a person for cheating, the person cheating , male or female makes a decision and acts on it , it's not like they fall into the arms of another person.

I have a policy that's pretty simple. No matter what the conditions, if you cheat... your out; Zero Tolerance. Even if I still have feelings attached to her its a sacrifice I'm willing to make.
I have a friend whose ex cheated on him six times. After each time she apologized and did it again.
If you like it somewhere else, you can stay somewhere else. Nuff' said.

if a partner were to cheat,, forgiving them is like saying,, it's ok,, go do it again,, it'll be ok,, not,, has never happened to me,, but if it were,, no forgiving here,, don't let the door hit ya on the way out,, ummm,, second thought,, let the door hit ya,, lol

Has anyone actually CAUGHT someone cheating? Like, actually in the act?

I caught myself guess nobody wants to be with me now from CS

Cheater one day , Cheater always....

the decision about if you take a cheater or not is totally yours. But you have to do it in your full awareness that if someone cheat once they will always cheat.. So if you take him back , you know in advance that one day or another he will cheat on you again.

If you are ready to accept that, then fine. But if you are not, then you know what to do.

In all the cheaters I have met in my life... the worse one was my own cousin... she always had more then one man at the time... and one day she slept with my own boy friend... yep... that how loyal she was...

Well her husband was wondering if he should take her back or not and I told him the same as I tell you now...and he said ok and took her back... not more then 2 years after...I received a phone call from him saying that I was right... she did it again. I was not surprised.
It is the way she is and think...she always said... *never loose a good opportunity to have a good laid... sorry the language but that was her way to see life...

Now we are speaking about men... sorry to tell you that but my cousin was a man in disguise... If a man has no loyalty inside him now, he will never have.

That said...You have a choice to make, but either choice you will make. Never put any blame on him in the futur because now you know exactly where you are going.

yup Wikked! My words exactly...and yes Pucks Women do it to! I never have and hope to never...Sorry to hear she made her choice. Just make sure not to bring on that experience in your future relationships. You learned from it and did the right thing and that's what's important. You did not become the fool.

I find people too controlling in their relationship.

interesting mention of sex addiction.....my X told me, when we just started dating, that he'd been with prostitutes (M/F) during his marriage, but only because he wasn't 'getting any at home' (right....and he would never do it to me, because I was 'special'! ) - but, two years down the road, and he was lying, cheating etc etc....took me a while to wake up to the fact that they will NEVER EVER change!!
So, if there's any hint of infidelity in the past of someone I'm dating - it's a deal breaker - no question. I won't put myself through that again.
FWIW, my X was also a drug addict, and an alcoholic - very cleverly concealed under a super-smooth veneer......
Rather be alone than with someone with no respect for anyone else, let alone themselves.
Sad world, eh!!

Here I am again after so long,in my favourite canadian waters

Never. One strike you are out.
Once someone has cheated, how do you trust them again?
I would never cheat. Cheating means something must really be wrong with the relationship, and if cheating has happend, then the problem is far to advanced to fix.

COMMUNICATION AND HONESTY!!! VERY IMPORTANT! Deal with the problem before cheating is ever considered!