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I see ALOT of women I would love to get to know, but they either have a "snotty attitude, want children , or get jealous of my ex and the fact we had children together. I do like to have my fun, but most women are so frustrating!!!

Sorry to burst ur bubble but the same can be said of some men also.......it's a two way street.Just have to hope for the best and keep looking for the right one......they're out there somewhere,just don't give up hope.

First off I gotta say this.. If you and your ex are just friends and there is no reason for someone else to believe there is more going on then trust me you don;t want to be with a woman who is jealous of her.

Another thing, when you close the door to the children thing you will narrow your chances of ever meeting someone..

As a woman I can tell you this.. We are easy to figure out.. Don't lie to us, dont act like a jealous freak, realize that our idea of a good time isnt getting plastered at the local sports bar and you will be great.

Most women love children. I cannot see someone not wanting to be with you based on the fact that you have kids. I can however if having them means constant drama with your ex..

Maybe you should take a step back and look at what the situation really is and find out the real reason you are having a hard time meeting someone

Sorry man, but you know what they say: "Women live in a sexual jungle, men live in a sexual desert." The same applies to any other type of relationship.

It's never going to change, and the sooner we get over it, the better.


I took the liberty of looking at your profile, and you come across as hopelessly normal. In other words, not weird or dense. Any man who loves his kids and gets along with his ex should get exactly the opposite reaction of jealousy. In other words, the problem is not yours.

Good luck!

MIB

There's nothing wrong with normal. Just need to find someone who can appreciate it.

I think because you are young, and not able or doesn't wany kids anymore why most young women would be a bit jealous of your ex. People have goals, and if the requirements aren't there for achieving them, then folks move on.

"Women live in a sexual jungle, men live in a sexual desert."

who says this?

helllllllooo Tarzan where are you - """in the jungle looking"""" - damn no men here maybe I should head to the desert.

no tarzan but JAYNE IS HERE

ur a kook...u do kno that don't u?

Yep I know!!! just call me Grover

Love ya!

I am far, now I am near.....pant pant pant..now I am far....and now I am near!!!!!!!!!! right back at ya!!

jayne --- grover-----where's is tarzan??

Out on a limb

hes opening a branch office...or probably monkeying around we have TOTALLY hijacked this thread

Normal, everyday, average Joes are common. If you are average looking with an average lifestyle and not outgoing or funny enough then more often than not you are just going to be another face in the crowd.

An attractive, single woman can have her pick of any single man and she probably gets hit on daily so a man has to have something different about him in order for him to stand out. Search yourself and try and find that certain something that is different about you that women may find attractive and try and get that across to them.

But at the same time be yourself. Women can spot a phony a mile away.

Yo Dman , all i can say is this , If your waiting for a woman to make up her mind , you may be waiting a long time . And as for the coment someone else made , I am not a jealous type , but as soon as women find out that i am a single parent , WHAM their gone , and this has been happening for the past 5 years , so i have pretty much given up on women , I think this is the reason why some men go gay .EH!

This has happened to me when some men found out I was a single mom also. I've always been upfront about my kids & am proud of them. More than one man has asked me to choose between him & my kids. Sometimes good parents don't always attract the best partners.

It is really hard sometimes to forego companionship for the sake of doing the right thing and standing up for what you believe. Good for you about being honest about your single parent status.

Too true Rune.As for me,luckily,so far,I've never been asked to choose between my girl and a man,but then again that would mean having a man around lol.

Hey Dman

ok, I took a peek at your profile and it seems to me that, and please do not get offended, that you are trying to make up for lost time between being in a long term relationship , having FOUR kids and now, living a bachelors life........

you like video games?? well, not too many women WANT a man who is into that but rather things they can do together...without a REMOTE

NOT wanting kids and not being ABLE to have kids are two different things......and obviously you DID NOT WANT any, or you wouldn't of had the ole "snip snip" done!

Look at your age? some women are READY to have children at that age and truthfully, not too many want to accept a man WITH FIVE KIDS, albiet!

Older women??? well, speaking of experience, there is more to life than video games and rollerblading......

Good luck to you.....maybe the women you are picking aren't in the same category as to what you WANT and what they are willing to GIVE...