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I s there anyone out there who would like to talk to me? Man, it just seems like no one does. I keep putting out e-mails and nothin...It can get very depressing....So if you find yourself wanting to talk I am here.

Why are you depressed? Is it because your not getting any responses from those you wrote to or just depressed in general about life and such?

I know when someone writes to me I prefer a positive message and not so much a depressing one. I mean I have no problems with being a good shoulder to lean on when someone needs it but for first impressions being negative will not likely get you any responses.

Just my 2 cents of course. And that is depending on what your depressed about lol

Don’t be depressed for not getting any replies – it is just a site? Try something different and if that does not work – again no need to be depressed – You are beautiful, healthy and young! There is more in life – for real!

I get so much rejection it's not even funny. Well, actually it is, funny.

Just remember, there are POF...Get it? Plenty of Fish.

hint......Try there.

Hey there Fallenangel74 if you would like to chat then hit me up with a message and I will respond I never ignore anyone! I know how you feel I have been on here a long time and nothing you know I send out a ton of messages and not one response but oh well thats the way the cookie crumbles you can't do anything about that so just keep plugging away at it and you will get lucky and find some great friends hopefully! I wish you all the best and good luck!

Sorry to hear that u feel this way, but just be patient I was told by many when the cold weather sets in, many come to join or some return etc

In the mean time keep searching and don't give up

Fill the void in the mean time with friends, get togethers etc.....

are you really depressed or disappointed...

Wells thanks all for responding . I think it is a little bit of everything. depressed,rejetion,diappointed it just took a little toll on me as I was for a while,hopefull and getting at least some responses. But then.....poof! nothin. It is great to know that there is plenty of fish! I will try to at least be a little more optimistic? I do not know if that is the right word that fits there? I do not ususally tell every contact that I am.I was just wondering if you all have been at this point?

Well I know that I sure have, and then I know its time for a break. I rarely write letters now as I found it to mostly be a waste of time and energy. Tired of being disappointed and truly most people who did interest me were too far away, so you know already that more than likely you'll never end up meeting. Takes alot of energy to try and get to know someone and I found that most people usually only write a couple of sentences (at most) and one or two letters and then they are off chatting to another new person. Seems that not many want to take the time and energy to get to know someone as a friend etc. first.

So I changed tatics and focused solely on locals in my area. I've met one wonderful man and I'm seeing if or what develops.

I wish you good luck ..... but I certainly wouldn't recommend this as your only avenue for pursuing a relationship. Getting involved in community activities/organizations (the list could go on and on) .... choose things that you enjoy and then at least you'll have a common ground and no pressure to get to know someone.

Hey Fallenangel, don't be depressed. I joined this site in May and had a couple of emails and then nothing.. The men I message have never responded. I come here for the forums and have met a lot of really nice down to earth people here.
I am currently seeing someone from this site and it is going very well. He sent me a message on here and I asked him why he decided to email me. He told me he visits the forums and saw me chatting with people and thought I sounded down to earth. Keep posting to the forums, it seems like you get noticed more if you join in. People get a good sense of who you are and how well you hold up to conversation.
I never thought I would find someone on an online dating site. Think positive and don't let it get you down.

hey fallen there are good people on here is takes time to find them.
i have asked some negitive questions on here . but they are questions.
i have talk to a few good people on here now. keep your chin up, you can do it..