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Do you think it is o.k. to have sex with other men when your partner is not providing it ??????

created by: wandering | May 21, 2:13 PM CST
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Do you think it is o.k. to have sex with other men when your partner is not providing it ??????

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Angels_Spirit
Kingston, Ontario Canada
Posted: May 22, 2008, 1:40 PM CST
I also believe in monogamy and forever... who knows what the reason may be that nothing is happening, could be fisical, mental or health related.. the thing to do is find out what the problem is and deal with it, if its a relationship problem and the couple has grown apart and the feelings of desire are gone.. then its up to the person to be honest and admit it. Being seperated for a while due to work etc, isn't a reason to share the wealth so to speak. If a relationship is strong it can withstand a sexual problem, sex isn't everything, but it is a important part of a relationship. Maybe what they need to do is rediscover themselves again. Hard to say when its a hypothetical situation..
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ocean_1
london, Outer London, England UK
Posted: May 23, 2008, 4:19 AM CST
wandering wrote:
Is this sex o.k ??????


IT IS NOT OK.scold

I don't think you will agreed with your man having sex with other women while he is with you.
Sex is very important in relationship, if you can't make it work, I think it is your right to look for new relationship but only after ending the actual one.
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canadian_angel46
St. Catharines, Ontario Canada
Posted: May 23, 2008, 6:32 AM CST
lts not ok to have sex with someone else and be in a committed relationship.

Sex is part of that relationship and it should be something thats shared between 2 people, not 3. lts a special time where you show each other just how you feel. lf one person in the relationship states there not happy with whats being shown then its time to rethink whats being done and how it can be improved.

Thats just how l feel

Debbie
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Single_mom
Louisdale, Nova Scotia Canada
Posted: May 23, 2008, 7:27 PM CST
No it is not ok to have sex with someone else outside of your relationship for so many more reason's then it being disrespectful.

How would you explaine it to a child if you ever got pregant or the other person got pregnant?

Oh sorry hunny you see "Joe" is not your daddy because mommy decided to sleep with someone else because "Joe" didnt want to do the job.

OR

No hunny I'm your dad because I had one night with your mom because she wasnt happy with her husband/SO.

And that is not counting taking home an STD to the other person because you want to get your kick's on.
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tunzrok
Windsor, Ontario Canada
Posted: May 23, 2008, 10:45 PM CST
wandering wrote:
Is this sex o.k ??????


Absolutely not ok to bonk anorther women or man while in a monogumous relationship
Ya like I am going to say.... oh honey go f..ck whoever cause I'm not providing dropping jaw







but that has never been an issue dancing banana rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: May 24, 2008, 9:28 PM CST
No..Never...Not acceptable...Non...Nada..Hell No...I do not think so...Over my dead body...I hope i made myself clear in my answerlaugh
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curlywolf
quebec, Quebec Canada
Posted: May 25, 2008, 6:32 PM CST
kissmedeeply wrote:
No..Never...Not acceptable...Non...Nada..Hell No...I do not think so...Over my dead body...I hope i made myself clear in my answer




Sis I get the feeling ur not sure on the issuesticking out tongue laugh hug
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Brew01
Surrey, British Columbia Canada
Posted: May 25, 2008, 8:14 PM CST
curlywolf wrote:
In one word NO!!!!!!!If ur not getting what u want at home and he's ok with u going elsewhere....why even bother being together in the first place?

If u dare say u love him i will roll on the floor laughing.......u can't truely love someone and be intimate with someone else......doesn't add up.
Have affection for someone or being with them out of habit,routine or for the kids sake(all bad reasons btw) could explain the situation to a certain point,but haveing sex(not making love) for the physical sensation only just negates any feelings there are between two people.

When u love someone u r with that person,noone else,regardless or else it's not love.If ur partner is ok with you sharing the wealth.......ask urself how much they care for u

JMO


OMG..Jen, we agree completely.....CALL THE PAPERS !!! dropping jaw
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curlywolf
quebec, Quebec Canada
Posted: May 26, 2008, 7:01 PM CST
Brew01 wrote:
OMG..Jen, we agree completely.....CALL THE PAPERS !!!




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