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Hello all!

first off keep in mind that everything I am writting is what I am hearing from my friend.
Maybe advice form another female would be best considering it involves a girl

A friend of mine met a girl then 6 moth's later they started seeing each other. He left his ex wife and lived with a friend, in the summer he was suppose to rent the basement from another friend, to be precise, a girl.

This girl he going out with told him she dosen't want him living in another women's house and asked him to move in. She owns the house, He told me he is giving her 700$ per month plus pays all the groceries for him her and her daughter and anything she needs for the house he usualy goes half on.
No he did not put his name on the mortgage.

one month he had three pay checks and she had a fit that he did not give her anymore then the 700 dollars????

I was curious about her mortgage and he says she pays like 450 a month, she lives in quebec.

he has come to me for advice and I am confused so here is what is happening.

He has been there since last april, he tells me that every time they argue she makes him sleep in another room, sometimes for days. She asked him to pay for half of her property tax bill as well? what is that? He tells me he drives her to work in his van and picks her up and she says to him that she does not like being seen in an old van and she is embarassed. what's with that? He ha told so many things.

Just an example, looks like she has been saying comments such as, well isn't nice that you move in here and everything is ready for you, you use my furniture etc.???

There is more but it goes on. But I think I wrote enough.

It seems to me that she is looking for a live in partner for financial gain and not a boyfriend to care for?
I find it very selfish of her?

before I give him advice on this. what are your thoughts.

I can add more info if you need to know more. But Just what I said here makes me sick in a way.

I think she is using him and is very materialistic. what d you think? should he jump ship now or?

regards
John

He should run and run fast. She is nothing more then a gold digger. She is not in love with him she is in love with his money. Thats just my 2 cents.

My 2 cents is -----> This person is taking advantage of your friend, sounds to me he is easy going and to some women this is a "goldmine" to does who need to control and take, take take......

Since your friend has a ex-wife must know the legal issues (he and she) is entitle to half (living together 3 mths) is all u need to gain 50/50.

Materialistic without a doubt

ok.....



How fast can he pack up and leave???????????
Talk about a golddigger!!!!!!!
Sorry,but where is the love?
From what u've heard,ur friend is being taken in,hook,line,sinker and then some.
The woman in question has it made......he's covering ALL her expenses and he will be out a fair chunk should she decide to end it..........he could get some of it back if the situation arises but it would mean court.
In all honesty..............if he were my friend...........I'd be helping him pack.
Probably not what anyone wants to hear but that's my thoughts on the matter.

Wishing him the best of luck.

No need to say more

Get out now before it gets worse.

You are correct.....She is a user....wants all the money for herself there is none so blind as the one in love, who really can't see. He should run, not walk to the nearest lawyer, and get himself good sound legal advice.