Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 1:04 PM CST
langleygirl wrote:Perhaps there is a lot of truth to my statement that has struck a chord with you that maybe you need to address then because otherwise why such a strong reaction?
A very honest, and intelligent comment langleygirl. Don't ask an intelligent person a question, because you might get an intelligent answer.

Someone asked a question, did not like the response, then gave a demeaning nip in response, and when given another honest intelligent response, decided to report that as some kind of abuse.... I am wondering .... if a person asks a question, should they expect they answer they want all the time or to learn something from the truth?
Word of advise, if you really want to hear/know the truth ask the question, if not...... don't ask because you might not like the answer/truth. It's a lesson every one all over the world has to learn.
As for the question the young man asked regarding his looks, I have seen that happen on another site, and in person. I felt it was fake when a bunch of people responded with the fake suck up answers from people that don't know each other. Sometimes it made me wonder if they were suffering from the same thing, some of the children (some foster children) I have worked with.
JMO, what makes a person look good, is not just their personal appearance, it's their personality.
I will apologize to the people that have posted great things, but I can not remember all the names at the moment.
Curlywolf, her sweetie, cap murray, & Brew, have been important to some people on here because of their posts, how they presented and even how they made fun of themselves. Langleygirl, presents herself as smart and down to earth, (JMO) Kitty from Edmonton, comes across as very sweet and caring. It's the way their personal qualities come across that attracted me to them. not a photo.
To be honest, I will be more attracted to someone who can laugh, have patience, and MAN enough to cook for a woman instead of someone more interested in their looks.
If I may make a suggestion, when walking around or sitting in a mall or coffee shop, look around at the other people. Take a good look at the different faces. I mean a really good look. Their eyes, even wrinkles, all of that. A person with that some might consider non attractive, might have the most amazing eyes, that show what a great person they are.
JMO, the eyes will tell me more about a person, than their looks....
No matter what your qualities are, be yourself, don't live a lie. If someone can not like who you are, they just are not someone you should be around.
OK I've yapped/typed enough. Time for me to shut up. Sorry if this appears as a know it all post, it's not meant to. What I know, is a hell of a lot less than what I don't know.
Best of luck to everyone, have a great weekend.... Ick.... what should i cook for supper.......