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i have been using this site for a while now and i have gotten one flower and o messages. is there anyone out there for me. i am starting to doubt it but who knows. so take a look at my profile im not shallow and age does not matter to me. im just very lonely and bored and just because i like the color pink does not mean im gay.

Hey kiddo.... it's not you. All date sites get slow at this time of the year. Summer is when many are out and about enjoying the weather.

My friend had been on the single sites for 2 yrs before she met her now husband.

It takes time. Make some friends, and see where that leads you. JMO, if you get impatient, it will come across to the ladies on here, and that might scared them a bit.

Guys I have talked to, have said they avoid the females that come across as desperate to have a boyfriend.

Pink flower does not mean gay, jmo, it's just because of the selection of flowers available.

What do you like to do when away from this site? Tells us, through this thread about yourself. (just a suggestion).

Give it time, it will happen when it's meant to.

Sorry if it comes across as a mom giving a son a lecture. It's not meant to.

Pink does not mean gay, neither does purple... JMO. I have yet to figure out who, and why they decided that pink was feminine.

Since I love the color blue.... does that mean I am butch?

Ah you are not alone. I never get messages either. I don't count the messages from men in desperately poor third world countries.

Have they left messages about what good earning potential they have?

Yes and they always say things like " I loved you from the first moment I looked at your picture"," I knew you were the woman destined to be my wife as soon as I read your profile" It's enough to make me want to gag honestly. I often wonder who is stupid enough to fall for any of that crap.

Have you ever wondered what was in your profile.... that made them decide to pick you ????


Don't worry Smokeybear...you are safe, since you did not send us an email saying you had good earning potential.... willing to work, and could be a good husband...

Damn it Mary.... they said they love you??....... crap, mine were not as romantic......... one for guana did say his family was starving and could I send money........ never did mention marriage, or if they had potential to work and EARN money.

becareful what you beg for

very lonely and bored?.....start doing other things....go for walks, sightseeing....meet up with friends.

If you go out an TRY and give an HONEST EFFORT, to finding activities to do, it does something to your personality. People that do things and activities, and have a life away from the internet, do better than the ones that just hang out on the internet .. and not do anything else like sports or join a group.

It can be as simple as taking a walk... put your head up, and don't be afraid to look at people. Take a drawing pad a long... never know you might surprize yourself.etc etc etc.

creepy.....and true.... was not wishing but some royal pain was looking at my profile and some bald guy with a rabbit.................
creepy!!

The happier that you are in your life will begin to attract people to you. If you're bored - its not up to someone else to entertain you - its up to you to figure out something fun that you'd like to do. How about joining some community groups, the gym, sports groups, car clubs, volunteering, bowling; activities which interest you but where it also might lead to getting to know other people (ie. girls or boys who know girls) .... networking!!!! Are you going to school/finished or plan on further education?

Start doing things you enjoy ............ you're feel happier, you'll smile more which is attractive and getting active will put you in a better frame of mind as well it helps to keep your attention focused in a good way and not keep thinking negatively about your life.

i just want so say i have changed now and thanks for the advice everyone.

nice to hear that! KHD100 is right be patient! just like me i happen to meet a good guy from CS. and we are taking things easily. Getting to know each and other and we'll see where this friendship would lead us... no harm in trying! just like what i did! KHD100 always inspires me. Goodluck smokeybear18

Thank you....That's scary....nice you think that, but scares me because it's a very big responsibility.

Aw, you can handle it pookie

So it's a cold one in your one hand and a rod in the other for Canada Day ????

fishing rod hon, get your mind out of the gutter