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no sure a disabilty is a crutch when you are trying to meet some one.

What exactly did you mean by that statement? What do you know about people dealing with disabilities?


Some use disability to get material things, services, etc, but on a dating site that is not the case.

I would not have guess Maryrachelle had a disability. I saw a young lady with lovely long blond hair. Maybe I just look at people with disabilities differently than you do.

be thankful they showed there true colors before you were lead on....its not right but the way i look at it there afraid of what they don't understand

Couldn't agree with you more

I am meeting a lady tomorrow nite for the first time and have told her that I am still recovering from a MVA and I am currently on disability her reply was so

Will keep fingers crossed, it will turn out to be a positive one for you.

Thanks KHD100 the meeting was amazing we talked and talked and found out have many similar interests and we are both comfortable engaging in conversation She can handle my humor
The funny thing is she is recovering from a accident also and is on disability also and I did not know till we chatted
We have spent some time together over the past few days going on a pic nic a short walk and BBQ
Ya just never know she is enjoyable to be with and can't out run me cause we're both on the mend

Bravo, that is a start/step in the right direction. Even if you both decide you are great friend only, a friend is better than none.

Am Glad for you tunzrok.

May I ask, did you meet on here? or another singles site? Just curious nothing more.

I used to date a guy that had a disability and collected disability. I dont have anything against anybody with disabilities or special needs, cause thats also who i work with. But i did break up with him because i feel i was becoming his mother, and being used as a crutch. I know plenty of people that have disabilties and special needs that try to make things for themselves and want people to know what their capable of doing instead of what they cant do, and thats the way it should be!

I believe it is often fear that when told you have an disability makes people shy away.
There is sooo much emphasize on good health.
What most people also forget is that their lives are not yet over and any day their lives can change, in the blink of an eye.
Be grateful if you enjoy good health but be compasionate to others when not having it.
I conclude that more people are "cripled" in their upstairs region.

Not many of us are able to point out someone's short commings and not make that person feel worse.
You most likely meant well when you said this.
You did not say what you did, because you were trying to be mean, I believe that.

Yes I know I am short hmm petite, but I also know it is only on on end lol.

Blessed are the peace-makers so let's all try to be one.

holy wow well we can sit hear and show ower iq and feel sad about how life has bean so un fear or waht coller the sky is or sea is al i have to say cownt yer slves lucky that you are hoo you are and forgive one another and get past this if you want to poke holes at some one pick me ive had a life full of peple looking down ther noses at me for meney reasons ( 1 i cant spell why ok il tell you y my father was very badly skitsophranic grabd me by the leggs at 6 months old and beate me agancet the wall this is a man hoo cold lift up a full drest 350 engen my grand father told me i suferd brain damige at 6 months old wich made me deslexic a slow lerner my mom was 98 lb and triyd to save me but agancet him inposebel all 6 arease of my brain whr damiged i have workt very hard to better my self or hide my disability now i fownd out 4 yers a go im bypoler i was a herowin atick 20 yers a go had probloms with alcohall i qwit 8 yers a go as im elergick to it im a singl father and prowd of my 10 yer old sun i wolent chang it for nothing



now i want the both of you to take a good deep look in to your soles and ask your selves is this realy worth fussing over then think and look down the street and think how da m lucky you are living in this cuntry and that it dosent mater how bad life trets you that you will over cume thease hertls and be come better humin beings be couse of ower compashon for one another

3 sqwears on the tabel a roof over your heds and wormth and peple hoo love you all i have is my sun in my life 2 step kids 2 gran childron I CONT MY SELF VERY VERY LUCKY