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It's not considered a disability, because some doctors think it is all in the woman's head.

Interesting you say that. This is what I have just read about it. Pain is real.


Fibromyalgia (sometimes misspelled fibromylagia), a mysterious debilitating syndrome, is taking an increasing toll on our population. It is characterized by the constant presence of widespread pain so severe that it is often incapacitating. In the U.S., 3 to 6 million people may be afflicted by its symptoms. It is estimated that 15% to 20% of patients seen by rheumatologists have fibromyalgia. The condition bears a striking resemblance to Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and mainly affects women aged 25 to 50 years.

fibromyalgia, trigger points
Typical tender points for sufferers of fibromyalgia.

For many years the diagnosis of fibromyalgia was perplexing. Like Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, patients are plagued with symptoms of chronic muscle pain, aching, stiffness, disturbed sleep, depression and fatigue. Finally, in 1990 specific criteria for the diagnosis of fibromyalgia was determined. The criteria follows:

For a patient to be diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, he/she must fulfill the two criteria listed below:

* History of widespread pain for at least 3 months
* Pain in at least 11 of 18 tender points on digital palpation

Symptoms of Fibromyalgia include:

—Multiple tender points and muscle pain

—Disturbed sleep with morning fatigue and stiffness

—Aggravation of signs and symptoms by modulating factors (emotional stress, temperature changes)

—Subjective swelling and numbness

—Chronic headaches

—Irritable bowel syndrome

—Cold intolerance (Raynaud's Phenomenon)

—Dysmenorrhea - painful menstruation

—Exercise intolerance

—Weakness

What may Cause Symptoms of Fibromyalgia

Many studies have been conducted regarding the cause of the musculoskeletal pain. The pain originated due to a lack of oxygen supply to the muscles which results in altered muscle function. This lack of oxygen supply to the muscles could be due to a dysfunctional nervous system resulting in the constriction (closing) of the blood vessels supplying the muscles. Thus chiropractic (which restores nervous function) and other activities that increase the blood supply to muscles helps relieve the pain.

Natural Treatment

There is no one treatment for Fibromyalgia. An all encompassing treatment protocol must be used in order to effectively reduce the pain associated with Fibromyalgia. The ideal treatment would involve the following:

* Chiropractic adjustments - to restore normal nervous function
* Nutritional Supplements - to increase the oxygen supply to muscle and help restore normal muscle metabolism Aerobic
* Exercise - to increase oxygen supply to muscle Gentle massage and stretches Acupuncture - helps reduce pain. Aspirin and other pain relievers offer no long term relief of pain
* Reduce Muscular Stress - this would involve the use of back supports, modifying some activities, etc

In conclusion...Fibromyalgia is a real condition, and it is treatable!

I work with a lady that has Fibromylagia. It's not an easy thing to deal with.
If your Dr feels it's all in your head, you have the wrong Dr.

Thanks laffingone for explaining in detail, what this Fibromyalia is. I have never heard of this before.

your welcome. I've heard of it before but didn't know exactly what it was. Google is great. lol

I live with this every day, and have to learn to live around it. Mine is more complicated because I also have Myofascial Pain Syndrome. When these two are combined, treatment is even harder. For example, acupuncture works well for Fibromyalsia, but can trigger MFPS. Massage therapy works well for MFPS, but can worsen Fibromyalsia. I work out with weights, even though one isn't supposed to with this disease. I just do it lightly with higher repetitions and progress slowly. I meditate and do Tai Chi, and that helps me to deal with the pain. I know my triggers, and stress is a big one, so I do my best to avoid them. When I do have a bad flare-up, I meditate more. It helps.

Alcohol and smoking are two other triggers for this. Most of us can look through the list of symptoms and see things we've had since childhood, and out of something like 19 or 20, I've had about 15-16 of them my entire life, or developed them with age, so I think that this is really a progressive disorder.

I'm lucky because despite its complications, mine is mild and manageable most of the time. (I also have the IBS that can accompany it.) I know that not all are so fortunate.