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hey Curvy chick ...wake up girl he is still with another if & I stress the word If he was going weak at the knees for you too he would have ended it already . A man will put time into scoring a sweet woman , a hot girl for hot sex to him its worth 15 hrs of conversation it is sex after all... look he may be a nice guy but for f@cks sake woman stand up for yourself & say if you want me , want to explore the attraction further then you need to be single , you need to be available , you need to be free...
IF HE WONT OR MAKES SOME LAME EXCUSE ABOUT FINNACES OR EMOTIONS ITS CRAP & HE IS FULL OF SHIT TRYING TO GET A LITTLE BIT OF HONEY TO TOP OFF HIS OTHERWISE BORING BREAKFAST CEREAL!!!
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Kizzy

Hey Guys and gals!

first off, sorry for not reading up on the GREAT advice all of you have given me.....I have been "enjoying" my single life!

getting back to some of my responses, first off, he is NOT married.....just to let you all know

secondly, he IS still living with her BUT not???

regardless, I have let that go.....I have too much respect for MYSELF and actually, believe it or not, "her" to take this any further

no doubt he still calls me and we chat but briefly...

I am not that available to him....and haven't been for some time...

now, the new conclusion to this is that he is NOW SINGLE....it became OVER in the beginning of November.....

We have eased off the phone calls BIG TIME and I have taken a different avenue....

went away to Cuba for a week...met a heapful of men and really, I don't even think I WANT to be with him....

My logic to not wanting him???? who's to say that some chick doesn't enter his life and he does the same to me????

My mom once said something that made a lot of sense and I will translate it in english....(don't know if it makes a lot of sense in english but here goes...)

Don't spit up in the sky cause one day, it's gonna hit you right square in the face"

I think that we will remain as "buddies" and that my friend, is the best thing to do.....

I posted this cause it was wayyyyyyyyyyy out of character for me to be like that and I just needed some reassuring that my morals played a BIGGER part than my brain!

thanks for all the support and the advice....

trust me, your voices did NOT fall upon deaf ears!

cheers to all

the HAPPIER Curvy