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Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:41 PM CST : Divorce

Well i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever.

rocketqueen geelong, Victoria Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:46 PM CST : Divorce

Ralf74: Well i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever.

well, you can only feel what you feel ralfie.....i suppose people say well maybe we're supposed to feel sad, or angry or some such nonsense....but if thats what you feel, no-one can deny your right to feel that way

Lou29 Floating in the Riverina, New South Wales Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:46 PM CST : Divorce

Ralf74: Well i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever.

I would take that as a good thing. No sadness and pining over something that has ended.

Is there a divorce party in order?

kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:48 PM CST : Divorce

Ralf74: Well i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever.

It a condition most commonly refered to as "Icouldntgiveaflyingfuck" syndrome
It is ussually follows after separation from a "Thankfuckthatsova" Marriage

Symptoms usually persist until the festivivities begin or yoru 4th scotch at the divorce party...
BTW when are you posting the invites?

Kizzy

Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:49 PM CST : Divorce

Lou29: I would take that as a good thing. No sadness and pining over something that has ended.

Is there a divorce party in order?

Sounds like a plan!! I'll have to get all the other formalities out of the way and as soon as I have the divorce certificate, it is party time!!

Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:52 PM CST : Divorce

kizzy27: It a condition most commonly refered to as "Icouldntgiveaflyingfuck" syndrome
It is ussually follows after separation from a "Thankfuckthatsova" Marriage

Symptoms usually persist until the festivivities begin or yoru 4th scotch at the divorce party...
BTW when are you posting the invites?

Kizzy

I am stitching up the voodoo dolls for the party as we speak!! BYO name to put on it or you can just help me make my ex suffer, i am not fussed!!

sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:54 PM CST : Divorce

kizzy27: It a condition most commonly refered to as "Icouldntgiveaflyingfuck" syndrome
It is ussually follows after separation from a "Thankfuckthatsova" Marriage

Symptoms usually persist until the festivivities begin or yoru 4th scotch at the divorce party...
BTW when are you posting the invites?

Kizzy

Actually when I filed for divorce and when it came through. I felt a certain feeling of failure and found myself analysing what went wrong. I certainly did not feel proud in anyway. I remember it was an unusual feeling......

I hoped I've learnt from mistakes in the past and can take them into the future.

virgiomonkey Auckland, Auckland New Zealand

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:00 PM CST : Divorce

sxc666: Actually when I filed for divorce and when it came through. I felt a certain feeling of failure and found myself analysing what went wrong. I certainly did not feel proud in anyway. I remember it was an unusual feeling......

I hoped I've learnt from mistakes in the past and can take them into the future.

....Yep...I know that feeling very well.......

A hug for you sxc666...

J.D

Lou29 Floating in the Riverina, New South Wales Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:03 PM CST : Divorce

WOOHOO PARTY TIME! I am so there!

Lou29 Floating in the Riverina, New South Wales Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:03 PM CST : Divorce

WOOHOO PARTY TIME! I am so there!

Twodawgz melbourne, Victoria Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:11 PM CST : Divorce

Ralf74: Well i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever.

Never been there nor do i want to ..Although ladies, there is life after a divorce. Maybe its not the life you had envisioned..

Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:16 PM CST : Divorce

sxc666: Actually when I filed for divorce and when it came through. I felt a certain feeling of failure and found myself analysing what went wrong. I certainly did not feel proud in anyway. I remember it was an unusual feeling......

I hoped I've learnt from mistakes in the past and can take them into the future.

Hopefully i have done that bit already, I kicked my own ass for a long time after he left. I do feel somewhat grateful for what we had, it wasn't a completely miserable marriage but I don't wish for it back either.

sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:19 PM CST : Divorce

Ralf74: Hopefully i have done that bit already, I kicked my own ass for a long time after he left. I do feel somewhat grateful for what we had, it wasn't a completely miserable marriage but I don't wish for it back either.

That is such a good comment Ralph...So many times people are so bitter, right or wrong about their divorces. I'm sure anyone would be lucky to have you Ralph you have a great personality... The future can only be better.

kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:20 PM CST : Divorce

I remember when my divorce came thru ...I cried for hours ,I was sad ,I too felt like a failure ,I made light of it but seriously Ralf what your feeling is shock , we all go into marriage with the expectation that it will be forever the man or woman we love that day & that nothing will ever undermine it or come between it sadly tho reality is a lot different sometimes ... Its a shock to realize the finality of it all & the fact that we didnt make it that reconciliation is beyond reach,
life does go on love too if we are lucky enought o find it
Kizzy

sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:20 PM CST : Divorce

Twodawgz: Never been there nor do i want to ..Although ladies, there is life after a divorce. Maybe its not the life you had envisioned..

got that right dawgz I always said growing up 8+ and ended up 6-

never again

thouroughbred gympie, Queensland Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:22 PM CST : Divorce

Ralf74: Well i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever.

damm ralf.....

there goes my fantasy about having sex with a married woman

g33kgurl Melbourne, Victoria Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:23 PM CST : Divorce

Ralf74: Well i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever.

i vote for a divorce party!! i just organised one for my mate last valentines day. we called it the "liberation day".. hehehhehe..

Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:24 PM CST : Divorce

Twodawgz: Never been there nor do i want to ..Although ladies, there is life after a divorce. Maybe its not the life you had envisioned..

Maybe that is it, the fact that i have another life I can see ahead. It certainly helps knowing that someone else is able to see the lovable person in you. It was a pretty shitful feeling being cheated on and being left with 3 kids and no idea what life was going to deal out next. The uncertainty of time management, finances, support and fear of thinking I would be alone for the rest of my life was horrible at the time but as I learn to get on with it, it simply becomes a way of life. I am not sure how i would have gone emotionally if I had decided to progress with it earlier. I just feel ready to close off that part of my life.

Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:29 PM CST : Divorce

g33kgurl: i vote for a divorce party!! i just organised one for my mate last valentines day. we called it the "liberation day".. hehehhehe..

I love it!! We need some games!!

Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia

Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:30 PM CST : Divorce

thouroughbred: damm ralf..... there goes my fantasy about having sex with a married woman

well i am not divorced just yet!!

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