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blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:30 AM CST : trusting your instincts
I got a call this morning from a guy asking about my massage services .. he saw the advertisements I have on my car ..general questions.. such as how much, where I am prepared to travel, what time do I work til etc ... anyway .. he says,,, can I get back to you and how much notice do you need.. I say.. if your talking about having a massage today then at least 2 hrs

anyway... I get this really strong feeling when he was talking to me on the ph that he had been at the petrol station I had just left and my gut instincts were kicking in and I am thinking,... what .. did he just see me .. liked what he saw.. saw my advertisement on my car and thought... I wouldnt mind a massage and any extras off her!! ... but then I told myself not to be silly.. and I needed to not assume that he wanted anything other than a massage and I needed to trust males if I wanted to build up a legitimate business but my instincts just wouldnt stop niggling at me... he said he would get back to me later


anyway... he rang me back later that day,,, he rang me 5 times all up!!! and said.. ok... can I book you in at 8pm ... so i get his address and name etc.

I come home and send him a text asking if he had a email address so I could send him some forms I needed him to fill out .. he rings me straight away and says... I just got your text .. what are these forms you need me to fill out... i explain they are client history forms and policy and procedure forms and informed consent forms etc .. he says... I dont want to fill out forms.. its only a massage... and I'm like... yes.. but I need to know it is safe to give you a massage etc and its a requirement of my insurance that I get detailed information so I protect myself and my clients..

his response

well I dont want to fill out any forms so I think I will give it a miss

I said.. ok

I get off the phone and I am thinking... I knew it!! my gut instincts were right!! he wanted more than just a massage.. why would he have a problem filling out forms if he was legit??

unfortunately.. the result was also... friggen men.. they are all the same... they think with their dicks mumbling

I think I will just do mobile massages to women from now on ... I think I will be at risk if I say yes to men

do you think I am right or am I being paranoid ?? dunno
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steven6611 victor Harbor, South Australia Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:37 AM CST : trusting your instincts
hug Blonde that is so worrying. I have a couple of lady friends here in Adelaide who undertake massage work like you and they have decided to specialise in just women for the exact same reason.

I dont know what you have on your advertising but I have discovered with mine I once made the msitake of putting my homeaddress on business cards , etc . now I put my PO Box on it.

Working by yourself and doing what you do , you sadly probably have to double think everything because of the reasons you mentioned. The way you described the forms was very professional & it does sadly sound Blonde like he wanted more than just a normal massage.

Dont let it put you of your goals & dreams though
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Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:38 AM CST : trusting your instincts
I think on this occassion it was good to listen to your instincts but do you know yourself when you are being paranoid and when you have a sincere gut instinct? If you can trust yourself to make that judgement then i think you will be fine to extend your services to men. Not all men are the same but they are visually stimulated so maybe you should consider removing the ads from your car so they cannot associate you with the service, coz you are pretty hot!! wink hug
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tarnsnz Horowhenua, Wellington New Zealand
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:39 AM CST : trusting your instincts
ALWAYS trust your gut instincts as better to be safe, we have them in us for a reason and when in doubt, trust ya gut

NO, you are not been paranoid, just smart thinking comfort
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Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:41 AM CST : trusting your instincts
Ralf74: I think on this occassion it was good to listen to your instincts but do you know yourself when you are being paranoid and when you have a sincere gut instinct? If you can trust yourself to make that judgement then i think you will be fine to extend your services to men. Not all men are the same but they are visually stimulated so maybe you should consider removing the ads from your car so they cannot associate you with the service, coz you are pretty hot!!


Arm yourself with capsicum spray or personal alarm too, just in case. I don't think some self defense classes would hurt and have them place their clothes near the door so if you have to run, grab their clothes so they are unlikely to follow.
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blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:46 AM CST : trusting your instincts
steven6611: Blonde that is so worrying. I have a couple of lady friends here in Adelaide who undertake massage work like you and they have decided to specialise in just women for the exact same reason.

I dont know what you have on your advertising but I have discovered with mine I once made the msitake of putting my homeaddress on business cards , etc . now I put my PO Box on it.

Working by yourself and doing what you do , you sadly probably have to double think everything because of the reasons you mentioned. The way you described the forms was very professional & it does sadly sound Blonde like he wanted more than just a normal massage.

Dont let it put you of your goals & dreams though


yeah .. sorry to say this cos you are male steven but most men are sad sex starved fools who totally think with their willies roll eyes its so annoying that I have to exclude genuine cases of the few men who actually do want just a therapeutic massage because of the majority of men who don't use their real brain frustrated

as for my advertisments on my car, they just give my business name, mobile number and business email and what I do IE professional on-site, mobile and clinic based massage services

dunno so nothing in them to indicate I sell sex!!
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kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:47 AM CST : trusting your instincts
Good call


Just outta curiosity your business mname isnt Blondes massage is it ?


maybe a bumper sticker No happy endings!!!!
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steven6611 victor Harbor, South Australia Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:47 AM CST : trusting your instincts
That is great advice Ralf. I also didnt know as she is doing a mobile service, if Blonde has planned her day (i.e. Thursday), she can prepare a list of all clients, addressess, times , etc left say with family, etc as an added precaution so they know roughly where she will be
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kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:50 AM CST : trusting your instincts
steven6611: That is great advice Ralf. I also didnt know as she is doing a mobile service, if Blonde has planned her day (i.e. Thursday), she can prepare a list of all clients, addressess, times , etc left say with family, etc as an added precaution so they know roughly where she will be


now see that sounds like what a call girl has to do
Maybe get some beefcake to escort you
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steven6611 victor Harbor, South Australia Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:51 AM CST : trusting your instincts
sorry did that come of bad I do apologise if it did
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blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:51 AM CST : trusting your instincts
Ralf74: I think on this occassion it was good to listen to your instincts but do you know yourself when you are being paranoid and when you have a sincere gut instinct? If you can trust yourself to make that judgement then i think you will be fine to extend your services to men. Not all men are the same but they are visually stimulated so maybe you should consider removing the ads from your car so they cannot associate you with the service, coz you are pretty hot!!



rolling on the floor laughing I am reading your response ralf and I am thinking .. yep she is making sense and I am thinking yes I think most of the time I know when its a sincere gut feeling...

then...

I read your last comment and I pissed myself laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I am still pissing myself laughing rolling on the floor laughing then I thought...now she is talking shit laugh laugh

you are one funny woman ralfy but thanks for the compliment anyway !! laugh kiss
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Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:53 AM CST : trusting your instincts
blondeaozichick: I am reading your response ralf and I am thinking .. yep she is making sense and I am thinking yes I think most of the time I know when its a sincere gut feeling...

then...

I read your last comment and I pissed myself laughing I am still pissing myself laughing then I thought...now she is talking shit

you are one funny woman ralfy but thanks for the compliment anyway !!


dunno What, I'd fark ya!! wink rolling on the floor laughing
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blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:54 AM CST : trusting your instincts
kizzy27: Good call Just outta curiosity your business mname isnt Blondes massage is it ?maybe a bumper sticker No happy endings!!!!



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing no its not

its called

A New Dawn ~ Therapeutic Mobile, Clinic & Corporate Massage Services

I personally do not think that sounds in anyway sexual myself laugh
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kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:55 AM CST : trusting your instincts
Remember Blonde there are predators out there and you are attractive so be careful SOME men are Just bad !
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kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:56 AM CST : trusting your instincts
Ralf74: What, I'd fark ya!!
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

wink
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blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:57 AM CST : trusting your instincts
steven6611: That is great advice Ralf. I also didnt know as she is doing a mobile service, if Blonde has planned her day (i.e. Thursday), she can prepare a list of all clients, addressess, times , etc left say with family, etc as an added precaution so they know roughly where she will be


I dont just do mobile.. in fact I dont do many mobile ones at all ... when I do... I tell my mate or my boys .. I text them the address and when I am meant to be there and for how long... and they rings me at a certain time if they haven't heard from me before then
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steven6611 victor Harbor, South Australia Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:58 AM CST : trusting your instincts
hug thats good Blonde I was just coming up with some options to assist you
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blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 6:58 AM CST : trusting your instincts
Ralf74: What, I'd fark ya!!




hehehehe grin fanx ralfy wink
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blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 7:02 AM CST : trusting your instincts
kizzy27: Remember Blonde there are predators out there and you are attractive so be careful SOME men are Just bad !


thanks kizz.. kiss grin and yeah... they are some bad ones out there sigh really annoying tho ...


a message to all the men out there

STOP THINKING WITH YOUR LITTLE HEAD!! roll eyes
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tarnsnz Horowhenua, Wellington New Zealand
Wed Jul 1, 2009 7:03 AM CST : trusting your instincts
Ya might want to change the name now or delete delete delete
as instead of getting emails or here with no faces, you will get them making appointments

now ya have to screen all phone calls
scold
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