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john1903 timaru, Canterbury New Zealand
i found that when people help others they do it because theyr'e kind,or is it about ego because they help others to make themselves feel better?thoughts anyone?



steven6611 victor Harbor, South Australia Australia
For me it has never ever been about ego it has always either being kind or just wanting to help people from little things like reaching the top shelf in the supermarket for an elderly lady to being in the Country Fire Service in South Australia for over 20 years
john1903 timaru, Canterbury New Zealand
steven6611: For me it has never ever been about ego it has always either being kind or just wanting to help people from little things like reaching the top shelf in the supermarket for an elderly lady to being in the Country Fire Service in South Australia for over 20 years
yes but doesn't it make you feel good helping?



steven6611 victor Harbor, South Australia Australia
laugh Sorry I forgot that bit John yes it does handshake
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
steven6611: For me it has never ever been about ego it has always either being kind or just wanting to help people from little things like reaching the top shelf in the supermarket for an elderly lady to being in the Country Fire Service in South Australia for over 20 years



for me it never has been about ego it has always either being kind or just wanting to help people from the little things like reaching for the top shelf scotch in the bar for some sexy as hell Fireman who has come in sweaty wearing no shirt to cool his firm rippling muscles..... happy place
and tes it makes me feel good
well im hoping it will
mmm How did that thought be there confused wink

Kizzywine



steven6611 victor Harbor, South Australia Australia
rolling on the floor laughing wrong fire service Kizzy I was in the volunteer one, failed the physical for the Metro Fire service.

I can see you in charge of all the new fire recruits grin .OK Boys shirts off Let Kizzy see those muscleshug



Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
john1903: i found that when people help others they do it because theyr'e kind,or is it about ego because they help others to make themselves feel better?thoughts anyone?


For me it is both, i am egotistical, i'll admit it!! laugh Sometimes i like to do things to prove to myself and others that i can and will do it. It is usually much bigger things than i would do out of the goodness of my heart. People know that i am a doer too, so I always get asked to do things, it is an everyday occurance for me.
john1903 timaru, Canterbury New Zealand
Ralf74: For me it is both, i am egotistical, i'll admit it!! Sometimes i like to do things to prove to myself and others that i can and will do it. It is usually much bigger things than i would do out of the goodness of my heart. People know that i am a doer too, so I always get asked to do things, it is an everyday occurance for me.
cool ralfwave
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
john1903: i found that when people help others they do it because theyr'e kind,or is it about ego because they help others to make themselves feel better?thoughts anyone?


I work in a field where I help people .. I do it because I get paid to do it ... but I certainly don't do it to make myself feel better


dunno
bourbon Sunshine Coast, Queensland Australia
Ralf74: People know that i am a doer too, so I always get asked to do things, it is an everyday occurance for me.


Do me! laugh
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
I like helping the people I care about ... it makes me feel good to know I can do something positive or nice for them sometimes




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