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i just posted and poof it was gone

Looks like we are going to have to rebuilt, time for a change anyway

Another piece of history gone

Yeah.... I'd just got to page 35 and was in fits of giggles.. when 'poof' gone...

Hey at least you got to read from page 31, that was the start, not sure of end page thou

Yes Im very grateful for MBR for pointing out when the funny stuff started...


Hmmmm I wonder if he'll be back ??? or if he's banned???

We hope won't be back after emails sent to.... , there was some info but I think it was on the random comments thread that disappeared along with all the good stuff

Last i heard he was off to become a celebrant

personally I dont think that he'd be a good one, he'd be too depressing .....

imagine exchanging your wedding vows infront of a depressed, disillusioned celebrant....

Is this a form of internet bulling? Don’t want to play the devils advocate here but all this could lead to something of the conscious you all might have to live with.

So sending flithy disgusting emails to women for no reason is not bulling??

I think this is just the result of some pretty shabby stuff that's been dished out by you-know-who .. and it's possible that, this time, he wont be returning (much as he will eventually want to).

Just some people letting off steam

How much behind the scenes does one have to put up with that you dont see as well. How many of us had enough and had to block him.

This has been going over a long period of time now and is not all just recent so maybe you havent seen or put up with some of the things we have had too.

If you go back a while, we all used to do our best to be nice and friendly but maybe someone shouldnt be on here, maybe their time should be spent getting the help that they as that is not normal behaviour.

And something else, did you think someone in a state like that should be on a dating site looking for someone.

Is a date in a safe enviroment on the outside of the dating site after the behaviour pattern formed in here ??

You have to ask yourself?

Hi serine

I can see both sides. In a perfect world as friends we would be supporting and helping a person to get over a difficult time in his/ her life in the imperfect world we sledge.

Fire Sirens are going off, just going to watch the firemen

Maybe Richard the poof took it..

I see, on sunny days I stand on a corner with a raincoat but I would never send disgusting e-mails to members. Shame on you Loveableone!

Much as I agree with the support idea, elite, like tarnz said - this has been going on for a long time.

I mean, ages ago, when it was apparent that he was having trouble finding his way in the forums, I started a "fanclub" for him to give him a bit of a boost. Even then, the attention-seeking thing was going on followed by bursts of inappropriate posts and "netstalking" - where he would post immediately after a female with full-on sexual innuendos and unwelcome flattery (despite being asked to stop)

He would get a cyber slap for this, following which he would throw a tantrum and hide his profile for a day or two. This would then be followed by profuse apologies and a gradual re-acceptance by some members (the numbers dwindling every time he replayed this performance)
Let alone the individual women on here who have been the recipients of some disgusting emails from him

THIS IS SEXUAL HARRASSMENT AND WE DON'T HAVE TO PUT UP WITH IT

This man obviously has psychological problems and this forum is not an appropriate place for him to reveal them. Its beyond us to "help" him - we are not counsellors.

In a thread, to speak ones mind, is open and honest communication.

To send dirty little emails in the background is dishonest. Its not OK to be the perpertrator in the dark background, and play the misunderstood innocent victim in the forums.

Its not OK to claim that sending filth, is some sort of joke, or social experiment...

JMO