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a very interesting topic gogirl. most of the time i think it;s right on the money to wait a couple of dates or a couple of weeks to consummate the relationship but on the other hand, this whole dating thing is very random. I once had what could have been a one night stand with a woman but in the morning after we both decided we liked each other enough to go out on a few dates. it was a very funny predicament and needless to say it took all the pressure out of the whole date after you know what the other looks like naked. On the other hand i recently got told throguh the grape vine that a girl i once made out with thought my gentlemanly approach to dating and sex was very prudish and thought i was too immature to sleep with. other friends though that i was a man whore after a recent bout of one night stands. needless to say, i'm totally confused and have finally come to the realisation that womena are just as much as full of shit as men are, present company (and nice down to earth women) excluded.

sorry gogirl. i'll get off my soapbox now. I want to include you in on the down to earth comment too. i just think that a lot of women would cringe when they hear of some of the things women have done to me in the same ways a lot of guys get pissed off when they here of other men acting like total pigs towards women. there's a few rotten ones in either bunch. personally , i don't mind waiting a little while for sex ( i'm used to it) and am happy when we're both comfortable as it really does seem to add to the whole experience. i guess people should go with their instincts on this one and treat everyone they meet in their own unique way.

Well Newbie often you damned if you do and you damned if you don't so if I do or don't I DON'T Kiss & Tell

But I hear ya hun about many women being just as bad if not worse than many males at times - I guess we just gotta weed out the good ones and hope they arent wolves or wolfettes in sheepy clothing

The old adage do unto others as you would have them do to you applies to everything hey!

Well i think that ends this thread. Between the both of you I think you have nailed it.

Your damned if you do and damned if you don't. Approach each date as a new experience and play it the way you feel personally.

Me i would wait. But that is only because I am not a go get her person. I lack the self confidence to make the moves and i lack the gift of the gab to talk her into bed.

If i got a one night stand she must be either a REAL maneater, Really horny for me, Or really desperate for a root.

I have the perfect solution Annie........
















Dont date

do to others as you would have them do to you .if ya both wanna and agree i reckon ya may as well go for it .sometimes when people meet no sense going into denial if something feels right.

Oh Annie.. I would love the opportunity to make the decision but......... lol


It happens. Sex on the first date happens. I have only been on one date ever and sex didn't happen..! Others it does though.

I don't have a policy as I go with the flow but if it felt right and all that, then why not!

this could be a bit too personal Lou but ya not still a you know watt are ya ??? hope ya meet the right one soon ya seem like a woman and ya dont wanna go for 2nd best and i reckon if i wasent such an old fart i reckon id be tryin t win your heart

oh god go girl. i don't want to be the one that ends this thread but it seems i've been doing that a lot lately. lol. ummm i'm pissed so i'll be the first to let everyone know that you all rock and i have been feelin the love all week, gogirl if i was a lil older you would be in a lotta trouble. lou once again its a distance thing but omg you are sexy! and i don;t care who knows it. anyway here's to being a lil pissed and a bit honest

Hey Newbie frustration solved we meet half way with Louie and have a full on mind blowing threesome

Riva life would be oh so boring and frustrating if I didn't "date" and let loose once in awhile

oh stop that money penny. you know how that sexy talk makes me feel

wtf miss money penny - who flirts with james bond and has collection of barry manilow records lol I so am a flirt but I certainly don't have a collection of manilow records

lol No, I have a daughter. That surely means I have tested the water atleast once

Nothing wrong with getting pissed and being honest posting in the forums.

If I am still single in 2 years and not get any, COUNT ME IN! LOL

i think the y shuldnt if the want a relationship from a man bcoz men like 2use wonmen up and by doin that they thin k theyl b free in the morning and not hav 2 worry bout a realtionship its so wrong

i rekon yor rong. if da wonmen wan da secin date then dey gotta maik da man hapy. so wat if da man uses up da wonmen, dats wat dey ther 4.

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