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Fed1271 What was the name of the book, I will give it a squiz. I'm not adverse to learning something.

Isn't it amazing how, If you think hard about it; You can create a pluasible excuse for anything.

So I walk around checking out Woman and mentally grading & ogling them.
But I'm not doing it because I'm a middle age pervert. I'm doing it subconciously trying to find out which feminine form is best looked after to see if they're up to looking after me.



Yep I can accept that subconciously, But not when I Analyze it consciously. I'm just perving

Isn't it amazing how, If you think hard about it; You can create a pluasible excuse for anything.

yes but caution you are not seen grading as this may give the woman the impreshion she is of a higher standard so by ignoring them when they strive for you attention (because they are testing their value level) you are doing substandered men a fav, thus creating a depresion in the female levels to work in the favor of all men, first womem them the world

See what happens when you let a Male contemplate things.

It took a while but finally something fell into place from these three scientific references mentioned in this thread.

If both sex's subconsciously work off of physical appearance.

Then how can we expect others to accept us for our inner self. According to these three quotes it ain't gonna happen.




Don't know whether to laugh or cry

Drag hate to bust your bubble.
Women who kill their husbands are both skinny and fat don't mean nothing....!!!
Over and out....

Nope you lost me.



But I'm sure your right, A Killer comes in no set size.

Drag hate to bust your bubble.
Women who kill their husbands are both skinny and fat don't mean nothing....!!!



Yep lost me too

but i have come to this Dragondog, if you don't allow your self to be Rated on you looks in here for example; a woman in my view is more likely to see what everyone else voted and than make a rating choice based on a balance of others, them selfs and is more likle to score you lower then themself in most cases thus giving them self a higher expectation so by not having a meter on your self leaves them with no idea but their own giving you more chance to scratch in on being equal, and when men vote they look go grrrrrrrrr 9 or 10 willy nilly and we do this because the alarm went off, bells rung and got a tingle and for the reasons we also like to let them know you think their great but by scoring them above your own level might get you a smile if your a 7 and she's a 10 you could of just put youself out of the picture because she's now looking for a 9 or 10 guy So all in all you don't want to present your self as less the equal and treat them as equal to you.

Ok Drags...my reference was to your post which said...



If you are cheking out whether a women looks after herself to see whether she is capable of looking after you = even skinny and fat women kill their husbands. Size is irrelevent as to how wel they may look after you.

Each to their own on preferences physical gender whatever... just i feel it is irrelevent that size = amount of love

If you are cheking out whether a women looks after herself to see whether she is capable of looking after you = even skinny and fat women kill their husbands. Size is irrelevent as to how wel they may look after you.


Drags; entry is a coclusion of one of my entrys and he is on the ball with that, He is right and haveing fun with his new found infomation, in saying this there is larg and small size, lets just say there are all sizes of women whom look after them self well, for instants a men that didn't look after himself you might call him a dag and they come in all shapes an sizes don't they not may women like the dag, Dose not mean that a healthy cute sexy woman won't kill you at least it could be more fun, like the joker in batman said if you got to go; Go with a smile

sorry about the typeOs ppl the fingers are still behind the brain, been a while since i typed this much, but you get the gist

i dont recall reading anything about weight.

Its the killing bit I'm worried about, is there a lot of them out there I'm going to start a new one; What kid of Women Kill their man? cause i realy want to know

A woman that is f**^&& up in the head

well I have read most of this blog and seem to find that a lot of women would go out with a man cause he is good looking or has stability or just drives a nice car, whatever, 80% physical attraction, or even all..........materialistic.......I mean were you really listening when he was talking about drinking 20 beers the night before or staring at his muscles..........Did he hold an intelligent conversation??????

Obviously the guy who got bonked was a hunk and the real man (who is average looking) with heart and soul was home watching tv missing out.....

The main question should have been why are there no prince Charmings out there for me........Well the answer is of course because they dont exist........easy.

The thing is that if women except the man for who they are and dont try to change them, then everybody would be happy. Ask the right questions before hand then find way to the second date!. Or maybe a third and call me old fashioned but if you bonk on the first date then you are no different to the person you are questioning.

Secondly I hate stereotypes oh all men are hunters and gatherers is crap. I live alone and do the job of both sexes otherwise I would live in a dump. Now if all men are stereotyped in this way then why is half the population happily married still, or is that the stereotyped wife just excepting their hunters....what the?....

Until we except that everyone is different in their own way this question will still never be answered. Everybody is not perfect and that what makes us interesting...........

get to know someone interesting today.......who knows maybe enjoyable and lasting and still get laid.............

cheers

hmmmmmmmm

Very "interesting" Jimi Boy

from my educated friend and my own experience, women have two staged of arousal . men have one.

unless he can develop his inner female quality you will find this more and more through out the species.

and purely women have ferocious( big and demanding) sexual apertights.

men aren't trained. hang on i am ...most men are not trained in sexual kungfu therefor the whole experience is rather hit and miss.

there is a point to sex outside having babies and getting laid. both require only one partner to engage and there goes your experience.

all that need of trust, that need to evolve is not met.

anyway get them to fix it. with your help.


kenny

Sorry Jimmi i fully believe men are hunters by nature. Can you not tell me when you have become infatuated with a women you go hell or high water to hunt her down and gather her up to become yours and no one elses... We are largely still primitives in a lot of aspects even hunter gatherers can still be nurturers as well if required. But hate to say it... if men were intended to be nurturers by an ecological view then they would be able to nurture an infant by feeding it from the body. Instead they are born with strength and agility and a natural instinct to procreate and spread their seed and be a provider.
In saying this i would never take away the respect you deserve by being the nurturing parent and taking over when it is essential or maybe on your occassions it was by necissity or by choice. Yes there are some men who by choice choose to stay home with the children etc but they are indeed the minority which clearly means that biological precedents happen naturally and for reasons of sustainability of humankind.

go ahead and call me a looser if you must, but from my experience so far, the females are so used to this type of guy, that they pass over the genuine guys as well. i am seeking someone to spend the rest of my life with, but the second you ask if they would like to have a coffee some time, it is like you dont exist any more. too scared of being hurt again.