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I meet a lot of great people online and I have no F'n clue as to who might be "the one" anymore. Not that I ever did or believed there may only be one.

Take a chance on who is willing to meet you. You never know what may come of it. There are a LOT of good people on here and if you're not open to the possibilities, then, it'll never happen!

Just go for it!

Hi

Well, I'm certainly not an expert, but, I would say maybe its your sixth sense kicking in & something is telling you something isn't right.
I usually go on my gut instinct, & it really has led me wrong yet.
If it was me, perhaps I would maybe have a couple more dates & see how things go and if you still are having doubts, let her down gently, don't just not call or not contact her, just maybe say your not ready for a relationship yet. These things have a way of working out.
Good luck.
Kaz

Oops, that should have read my gut instinct HASN'T led me wrong yet.

Most certainly keep that in mind..

Hi
Why make a decision so quick, a couple of weeks of dating is not long. If you feel their not the right one, don't do a runner, just be upfront. Honesty is the best policy. And you can always make and keep a good friend. Oh and i am no expert either lol....................... Good luck :-)

can you put your finger on what your sixth sense has picked up on?

It is more likely your conscience telling you to slow down.

To stop thinking wedding Bells.

To me at any rate, that is your conscience talking. To be wary of diappointment. To slow down and actually take your time. It is not saying run for the hills but it is saying take it one step at a time and actually learn how this person reacts to different stimuli.

Good advice from one dawg to another..

Damn Is that what happened?????
Its Ok Dawgs Its just cold feet!!!
I promise I wont bite {much}
Ill be gentle {sometimes}
I mean Honey ,weve been seeing each other for at least 12 pages now ...
I thinks its time we get serious ...
Dont You?
You one true Kizzy

You've been masturbating to much get the fark over there


PppRRrrttT shit myself see

Well if things are going along great why change things, no hurry mate. As kidatheart said it does not have to be 'the one'. I think if you put up a pre-conception about how things should be you will end up disappointed. Every relationship with anybody you gain from, either wisdom in knowing more about relationships and things you do and don't want as well as just learning to interact on a better level. Our journeys with people don't have to be forever, they are about giving and receiving whether they last a week, decade or lifetime, I think your girl is probably feeling the same so just relax mate and spend time enjoying yourself instead of worrying whther you are infact enjoying yourself.

Another 12 pages and Ill be knocking on your bedroom window.

Cool dude shall take it on board..

A good stretch doesn't hurt any one.

Promises Promises.....

I believe in gut instinct (or in my case, women's intuition). One thing I do myself is the "picture my life in 5 yrs time. What will I have achieved, is that person still there? Where will i be in 10 yrs time? Can i still see them there?"
And the big one... If i roll over in bed when i'm 80, can i still picture that person there. If yes, you're on a winner.
Pre-emptive maybe but you don't get to our age without knowing yourself. Just don't rush the decision.

Good luck, let us know how it goes.

L.M

Good luck, let us know how it goes.


I will for sure....