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how is your radar any better you just got done again ,and i think your just not attractted to anyone decent ,and will probably always choose this type of personality ,because thats what you must be attractted to.

Mmmmm.......Bourbs & Ryan229,
Do I detect a similar sarcastic manner ??????
rude, offhand & barely concealed personality attack????
Ofcourse Bourbs spelling is superior.....But
That may just be to throw us off the scent......
mmmmmm......

Food for thought .....lol

I really do think virtual dating can work. But I do believe you have to both drag each other into the forums and see how you interact with others. See how they interact on a serious thread and on a light thread.

funny how some men talk about honest profiles and make fun of others but they hide behind a blank picture?
You gals have a right to be suspicious of wankers.

That's the kinda thing that bbw would say... she always did have a thing for pics.

yes they often hide behind humour as well, change the subject quickly and not answer the question. Point he arrows in another direction so nobody looks too deeply at them and their misguidance.

A picture doesn't make a profile real.

Not answer the question? What question????

I know that exposing bbw's fake profiles aint going to make her or her friends happy, but at least newbies that read about it will become aware that there are strange people online doing strange things.

funny how some men talk about honest profiles and make fun of others but they hide behind a blank picture?
You gals have a right to be suspicious of wankers.

its my opinion ,il say what i want if u dont like it you should move to china and become a comi,but how about get yourself a life instead,after all its not my name on every thread from every hour of the day on here.so look at yourself instead of imposing your negative outlook onto other ppl, and maybe your alone because your the most negative human being around i think.say what you want because i really never post and wont look again .but ive said my bit.suck on it

yes they often hide behind humour as well, change the subject quickly and not answer the question. Point he arrows in another direction so nobody looks too deeply at them and their misguidance.

I remember a time when humour flowed freely in here without people getting paranoid.....geezzzzzzzz if we are judged by humour...read back the older threads and there would be a few of us as fake as a three dollar note....weird bit is I have actually met these people and guess what...uhu real as can be...

I remember a time when humour flowed freely in here without people getting paranoid.....geezzzzzzzz if we are judged by humour...read back the older threads and there would be a few of us as fake as a three dollar note....weird bit is I have actually met these people and guess what...uhu real as can be...

This topic has probably been done to death, but I just had to get it off my chest.

Yes, the truth is out there, somewhere.

These last couple years I have struggled to find an HONEST man. Let me begin with the experience I had last week for example.......

I met a guy a couple weeks ago off this site, and man what an eye opener that was. He seriously believed he could get away with telling me that a) he is separated from his wife, and b) the kids DONT live with him. Now I feel awful about the times I spent with this guy, coffees, drinks etc, because somewhere back at home the poor missus is doing the cooking and cleaning for this sonofabitch! Sometimes I have to really try not to laugh out loud, because these guys really think I am not smart enough to work them out. It all comes unstuck though when you offer to go round theirs armed with a pizza and DVD hey?

Now don't get me wrong, I really appreciate the whole charade, because my 'jerk' radar is getting better!

I wonder now though, is it affecting me finding a decent guy do you think? And why do I only get the married guys who want affairs, because it has happened to me more than once? Am I too trusting, gullible, too honest myself or lacking confidence?

I invite any comments and feel free to berate.

Sam

Have been on this site for nearly 3 years....

and spent the first 1 1/2 years being accused of being a fake because I had no pic up (thought we lived in a free country where we had a choice)

Those that chose to trust me and become friends are still there 3 years later and I have met a few....am spending time in the states with one at the moment...and am going to catch up with Harry in a few weeks.....

A picture doesnt make someone real and if you take your time before jumping in head first there are ways of picking real from fake....cam is a good way of doing that as are other ways......

yes there have been many fakes on here...but sooner or later they do get exposed....just dont become a victim due to desperation to meet someone.....

to all those I have met ....love you all