Untill recently I didnt believe some people were capably of depths of deception that leave one floundering for reason & understanding .I have been caught up in a scam to undermine my trust in another.I was contacted by a man a while ago I told him I was seeing someone he said he wanted to be just cyber friends & was happy for me however if things didnt work out hed like to meet me .Things were working out !!I told him this ,then a passing comment was made to me to indicate my special someone was in fact lying to me.It was made out as a coincidence & at the time i could see no connection at all between my cyberfriend & my current beau.The information was supposedly coming from a cousin of the cyber friend who was dating a man alledegly my man!Things were said that i knew to be true without doubt,facts that I was aware noone could know .All indication was that fate had delivered to me this information randomly & that my man was using me , playing me & lying.That i was just lucky to have discovered this .At this time my cyberfriend started hinting that he would like to meet me know me, romance me ,seen as now my current man was a liar,he was supportive,consoling etc.I took the information to my man,reluctantly ,as I knew him to be an honorable man !I said this !,my soul knew he was not capable but my logical,reasoning mind told me this was deception,there was so much evidence that could not be explained.I was shattered ,confused,left doubting my own judgement.my man stood before me unable to explain any of it ,shocked,stunned but adament this was untrue,we both were in turmoil,I knew he was being truthful & said so, but here was this evidence no grey area at all just straight out black & white he is lying!We banded together the last 48hours we have not slept , we delved into how this information could have gotten to a man who neither of us had eva met who lives hrs away, we didnt sleep ,we talked we reasoned we bounced hypertheticals around Finnally at 2 am this morning we found 2 clues!!!My x husband is seeing a woman,we found her on a site,she had contacted my man prior to me but he didnt meet her because he started seeing me.On her site we found a testomonial from my cyber friend They are close!! A connection !The information was coming from my daughter !innocently passed off at visitation,then passed to my cyber friend (for want of a better word)who then dropped it in conversation making it seem like my man had been telling this to a lover(his cousin)The intention ?To ensure I would be available for this predator to move in on me !!!!After all he saved me from a player & a liar I would be gratefull I would trust him He would seem to be my knight in shining armour!!!Also the x husbands girlfriend had been continuing to try to contact my man even whilst in a relationship with my X.My god !!This is the lowest act ive ever come across,clever yes But f@ck it is still so hard to comprehend !How did we fair? Well doubt was planted ,trust was compromised,but at the end of the day I believed in my instincts,My man stood strong in his honor,& I believe this will make us stronger,but think ...How easy it would have been to fall for it ?I could have sent a text sayin F@ck off player & ENDED IT !I could have been in the arms of a predator without ever knowing it !This experiance has scared me !shown me that Internet dating is a very dangerous place to meet people ,not all but some are out there for personal gain ,for reasons we cant begin to understand or comprehend.This cyber friend is a doctor well respected ,well off & well & truely f@cked in the head ,So my friends ,my real cyber friends ,be careful,be wary, be afraid,But trust your insticts the truth can & is being manipulated !This is a warning... Trust yourself before all others .
Kizzy
