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the reason behind this is ok to be honest i am a big girl and i am not scared to say it i would just liketo know how the rest of you think on this idea thats all

No I don't believe you should judge someone by their looks.

However there does have to be a certain sexual attraction between two people for anything to work out.

A good sex life is just as important as any other aspect of a relationship, if you are not attracted to someone this can not possibly end in a good rumba in the sheets or anything else apart from friendship of course.


JMO.

Everybody does it one form or another. It is human nature, but depends in what situation the judging is being done.

Yep I agree.

i'm a big gril to and not ashamed to admit it but mos t people judge you for it

Yes definatley....If you look like shit you feel like shit !!!
Large woman can looks as beautiful as a smaller woman smaller woman can look like shit too...
a Large man can look as sexy as hell if he carries himself well dresses nice is confident in who he is
a smaller man can look unatractive if he doesnt look after himself .
Its about confidence in yourself, your sexuality,Taking care to make yourself presentable , for me I take care of me I eat well I exersise, i wear nice clothes& underware, I sleep in nice things even if im alone I always look good I feel it ,I know it, Im not arrogant by any means im confidant .
This is the attraction
This is why people are drawn to each other
we put out vibes
If the vibes are positive
The results are also.

JMO
Kizzy

Big is beautiful not built for speed just comfort..

Your go girl, I concur.

Might take up the lingerie suggestion, everything else is ok...

I dunno Dawgs Ive met some speedy Big boyzzzzz lmfao

Possible depends in which department your referring to.

OKOk you got me i was reffering to the other fast....
cant put much ova you Dawgz ...Your a clever boy

Or were you refering to the Big department.....

to be quite honest here i think just about everybody does, i know i do i don't mean to do but its just something we all do, i know I've been judged quite a lot and rather than lamenting that its bad and that society treats people harshly etc you just learn to live with it.

However that being said this turns more often than not to be the first impression and getting to know somebody better often makes you reevaluate a poor first impression.

Rather than focusing on how society perceives you, perhaps you should be searching for those people out there than will actually make the effort to get to know you. Thats how i view it anyway ^_^

i think it is really unfair that people judge other people on how they look, but it's easy enough to do i guess.

I agree

We shouldn't pre-judge but we do........

All you can judge is about appearance. Sure some ppl look or act quite odd but then again you don't know anything about them. pre judging, mostly yes but that's not the final decission.