in a marriage should the house work be equal or a womens job

created by: snowangel38 | May 3, 10:45 PM CST
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in a marriage should the house work be equal or a womens job

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snowangel38
carins, Queensland Australia
Posted: May 3, 2008, 10:45 PM CST
just curious on ths one that why i put it in
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dragondog4
Hastings, Hawkes Bay New Zealand
Posted: May 4, 2008, 2:29 PM CST
snowangel38 wrote:
just curious on ths one that why i put it in


That does depend on the House and who provides the income. If only one income provider then the other keeps the house. If both work then they share the chores around the house.

Also does the Housework include the Yard and Garage.

I have no problem cleaning indoors and actually find it easier than doing the Yard Work.


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kidatheart
Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada
Posted: May 4, 2008, 4:11 PM CST
I do it all myself now so I don't see why that would change if I were to ever get married. It would be nice to have someone else to share the workload though.
The traditional male/female roles don't apply in my world. I think it's a load of BS to be honest.

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Lou79
Near Echuca, New South Wales Australia
Posted: May 4, 2008, 5:12 PM CST
The traditional male/female rules were made up in the what? 1800's and early 1900's?

Nowadays, I find it completely different. I agree with Drags, if there is only one income earner, then the other one should do the majority of house work, however I still think the income earner should do some things. I expect they wouldn't just come home sit down and expect a silver platter served up to them.

If they both work, then they both need to share the load.

Any male that expects the female to do everything when they both work full time is beyond me and if I was with a man like that, well, I wouldn't be anyway.

Harry, I do it all myself too and have done for many years and when someone offers to do something for me, I won't let them lol... Put Urs to good use while she is there rolling on the floor laughing
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kidatheart
Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada
Posted: May 4, 2008, 5:56 PM CST
Lou79 wrote:
The traditional male/female rules were made up in the what? 1800's and early 1900's?

Nowadays, I find it completely different. I agree with Drags, if there is only one income earner, then the other one should do the majority of house work, however I still think the income earner should do some things. I expect they wouldn't just come home sit down and expect a silver platter served up to them.

If they both work, then they both need to share the load.

Any male that expects the female to do everything when they both work full time is beyond me and if I was with a man like that, well, I wouldn't be anyway.

Harry, I do it all myself too and have done for many years and when someone offers to do something for me, I won't let them lol... Put Urs to good use while she is there


Hmmmm....I don't expect her to be climbing ladders or hanging drywall in a tartan mini and high heels. laugh
I'll try finding something for her to do.grin


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dragondog4
Hastings, Hawkes Bay New Zealand
Posted: May 4, 2008, 6:25 PM CST
It takes time and Money to maintain that Barbie Doll figure and look.

I don't see how they have time to do anything.

No The Male should be chief Cook and bottlewasher and everything else.

Then if he has the stamina after working all day and cleaning and cooking in the evening for his barbie doll wife, he just may be able to go and enjoy his Barbie Doll Wife.

If she doesn't have headache over stressing over a broken nail. laugh laugh laugh
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kismat
national park, Waikato New Zealand
Posted: May 4, 2008, 6:47 PM CST
We play a game to see who can do the most, you get bragging rights it's house work big deal not a prob for the ones I love but I pickup for no other bugga grin
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mysteriousmiss
Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Posted: May 26, 2008, 8:54 PM CST
snowangel38 wrote:
just curious on ths one that why i put it in


Both work to earn enough money to pay someone else to do it. It solves a lot of arguments and gives you more time to do other funnn thingsdancing banana
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Bogue
seven hills, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 6:10 AM CST
During married life, house keeping is shared. After separation and divorce it is customery that the women keep the house and the men keeps the mortgage.
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pony51
melbourne, Victoria Australia
Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 7:17 AM CST
wow is that the way it works what happened to me then he got everything D'oh!
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Rodles
Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 7:21 PM CST
kidatheart wrote:
I do it all myself now so I don't see why that would change if I were to ever get married. It would be nice to have someone else to share the workload though.
The traditional male/female roles don't apply in my world. I think it's a load of BS to be honest.


I,m with your train of thought
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Ruahine
Taupo, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 10:39 AM CST


kidatheart wrote:
I do it all myself now so I don't see why that would change if I were to ever get married. It would be nice to have someone else to share the workload though.
The traditional male/female roles don't apply in my world. I think it's a load of BS to be honest.


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If you train your kids right they sometime help take the load off
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