Posted: May 10, 2008, 10:37 PM CST
I just wanted to add something to this thread.
Happy Mothers Day to those of us who have lost a child, or are trying for a child, or have failed to conceive.
Many people forget these women on a day like today.
If you have lost a child, people sometimes try and avoid the day to make it easier for you (and them). But you are still a mother regardless! So to those in this situation, my heart goes out to you and your child(ren) are still with you in your heart. No matter what people say or think - you are still a mother and always will be.
If you are TTC (trying to conceive) and, like myself were/have been, unsuccessful, today can be quite painful. Its that little reminder that you are missing out on what so many others have.
To me personally, although I do not have any children, in my heart I am a mother without a child to love. Our wombs may be empty, but our hearts are not.
Anyway, just wanted to acknowledge those of us in those situations. Its not an easy day for some. Just know that you are not alone - in more ways than one.