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sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Ecoprincess: Twaddle, if sex isnt good nothing else matters, if the sex is good you can work on the rest.
Aint that the truth. Give him a chance though he is only 21cheers
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
rbha311: Jeez mis sxc...cut back on the sex lingo. Not being anal trust me...but somehow I shouldn't be on this site and I am...this is whats driving me up the wall.
So why are you dunno
rbha311 sydney, New South Wales Australia
Miss "Ecoprincess"...you are bloody 40 something with "ecoprincess" as a name and are hanging out preaching the high sexual needs of a relationship. Just because you didn't get any when it was your time doesn't mean you start promoting sex as a relationship saving tool. Or maybe you were never good enough sexually see your faulty sexuality as the reason for your relationships breaking down. All I can say is, if you haven't got an insight even at this age, you probably never will. Good luck finding young men or whoever finds you attractive and make sure you get what you missed out on.



Ecoprincess Sligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland
sxc666: Aint that the truth. Give him a chance though he is only 21



Only 21 comfort
thats his first lesson on relationships grin
rbha311 sydney, New South Wales Australia
Anyways I'll be off, interesting chat I had with you miss "sxc". Sorry if I was rude in any way :)...it was never my intention.

Have fun and I'll see ya when I venture online again. Night :)
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
rbha311: Miss "Ecoprincess"...you are bloody 40 something with "ecoprincess" as a name and are hanging out preaching the high sexual needs of a relationship. Just because you didn't get any when it was your time doesn't mean you start promoting sex as a relationship saving tool. Or maybe you were never good enough sexually see your faulty sexuality as the reason for your relationships breaking down. All I can say is, if you haven't got an insight even at this age, you probably never will. Good luck finding young men or whoever finds you attractive and make sure you get what you missed out on.
That was a bit uncalled for. You sound angry and why the fark for I have no idea. Slagging somone off isnt fair though.
And really if you don't like the threads stay out of them pretty simple really.

We have fun here and its a simple as that really. There is also the option of posting your own thread if you dont like the ones that are currently running.



Ecoprincess Sligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland
rbha311: Miss "Ecoprincess"...you are bloody 40 something with "ecoprincess" as a name and are hanging out preaching the high sexual needs of a relationship. Just because you didn't get any when it was your time doesn't mean you start promoting sex as a relationship saving tool. Or maybe you were never good enough sexually see your faulty sexuality as the reason for your relationships breaking down. All I can say is, if you haven't got an insight even at this age, you probably never will. Good luck finding young men or whoever finds you attractive and make sure you get what you missed out on.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Oh I love you lips
I am 50 on September 4th 2008 and proud of it.

Sorry to inform you that sex gets better as you get older grin , getting plenty and always have.

No preaching from me but thats your new name now rolling on the floor laughing

Only had 2 relationships break down, both their faults.

thanks for wishing me luck, I wish you the same.teddybear



Ecoprincess Sligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland
sxc666: That was a bit uncalled for. You sound angry and why the fark for I have no idea. Slagging somone off isnt fair though.
And really if you don't like the threads stay out of them pretty simple really.

We have fun here and its a simple as that really. There is also the option of posting your own thread if you dont like the ones that are currently running.



bouquet

rolling on the floor laughing hes only 21 rolling on the floor laughing
rbha311 sydney, New South Wales Australia
No I'm not angry because I don't have anything personal against anyone here but old people acting as if sex makes this world go around does challenge my beliefs a bit. Because I expect maturity to come with age and having fun is one thing but a serious discussion is another.

But like I said, didn't mean to offend anyone. i can't stop you from perceiving the wrong way but I just wrote what I felt....comes with the territory of being 21 :D
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
rbha311: No I'm not angry because I don't have anything personal against anyone here but old people acting as if sex makes this world go around does challenge my beliefs a bit. Because I expect maturity to come with age and having fun is one thing but a serious discussion is another.

But like I said, didn't mean to offend anyone. i can't stop you from perceiving the wrong way but I just wrote what I felt....comes with the territory of being 21 :D
It comes with needing to get laid ...................



Enduro Perth, Western Australia Australia
If I had to choose just one "must have" then that would be:

TRUST on all levels.

Without that I think there is no future.
rbha311 sydney, New South Wales Australia
Ok now I feel bad for what I've said miss "ecoprincess". See I was being presumptous and I take back what I said. I guess those are your opinions with your own logic behind them. But goodluck with finding someone :).

bye :)
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Enduro: If I had to choose just one "must have" then that would be:

TRUST on all levels.

Without that I think there is no future.
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Ecoprincess Sligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland
rbha311: No I'm not angry because I don't have anything personal against anyone here but old people acting as if sex makes this world go around does challenge my beliefs a bit. Because I expect maturity to come with age and having fun is one thing but a serious discussion is another.

But like I said, didn't mean to offend anyone. i can't stop you from perceiving the wrong way but I just wrote what I felt....comes with the territory of being 21 :D


Just out of interest what do you see as a 49 year old womans life ?

I am asked to go on dates by men from the age of 35 upwards, I enjoy good company. I have sex grin regularly. I am told I am beautiful and I beleive I am. I have lots of friends both male and female. I have two motorbikes, a car and a van. I work as a truck driver and have my own accounts company, my own farm, my own mail order company and my own toiletries company, I have my own money, I have family including grandchildren who I see regularly. I have the respect of everyone I know and return the same. I have people who love me and have proved it and people that I love and have proved it.

I have everything I have ever wanted and more.

If you take the time to read the threads you will also know I am entering Dakar next year and will be going solo around the world on my motorbike after Dakar.

You?



Ecoprincess Sligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland
rbha311: Ok now I feel bad for what I've said miss "ecoprincess". See I was being presumptous and I take back what I said. I guess those are your opinions with your own logic behind them. But goodluck with finding someone :).

bye :)


accepted handshake

rbha311 sydney, New South Wales Australia
Miss Eco all of this is fine and well. It's very commendable what you have achieved in your life and you are at a stage where you don't have to worry about the normal hassles of life itself...you are financially secure and can really live life on your own terms. But all I am saying is that you potray yourself as a wild creature rather than someone that sounds lucid and collected. I mean after you've said all that, let me tell you something about myself. I'm only 21 but i co-own an electronics consulting company with offices in two other companies. I am one of the leading researching engineers for the Human prosthesis market. I have all the money and the success that I could've ever asked for but yet it doesn't seem to have affected me. More than anything it has made me more responsible and mature. And sex isn't like a massive priority, but finding someone worth having it with is. This is what separates us from other animals, we just don't screw to procreate. There's deeper reason to human action...but like I said you have your own opinion and I respect that.



Ecoprincess Sligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland
rbha311: Miss Eco all of this is fine and well. It's very commendable what you have achieved in your life and you are at a stage where you don't have to worry about the normal hassles of life itself...you are financially secure and can really live life on your own terms. But all I am saying is that you potray yourself as a wild creature rather than someone that sounds lucid and collected. I mean after you've said all that, let me tell you something about myself. I'm only 21 but i co-own an electronics consulting company with offices in two other companies. I am one of the leading researching engineers for the Human prosthesis market. I have all the money and the success that I could've ever asked for but yet it doesn't seem to have affected me. More than anything it has made me more responsible and mature. And sex isn't like a massive priority, but finding someone worth having it with is. This is what separates us from other animals, we just don't screw to procreate. There's deeper reason to human action...but like I said you have your own opinion and I respect that.


Lucid and Collected, financial security, success, responsible and mature you sound like your talking a life time of security here - do you hear that - its the sound of feet running into the distance - yep thats me, no not financially secure or any other crap just free and happy to be me.

We are animals just one that thinks it better than the rest, the only thing that seperates us from animals is the fact that we decorate ourselves to make ourselves more attractive to the opposite sex, so that we can have more sex.

now I have to go and enjoy myself devil bye for now hope you enjoy the rest of your day.wave
rbha311 sydney, New South Wales Australia
You people humor me...I give up. I forget there's a good 30 year difference between our thoughts. But enjoy life dude. Later.



Ecoprincess Sligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland
rbha311: You people humor me...I give up. I forget there's a good 30 year difference between our thoughts. But enjoy life dude. Later.


dont worry you have 30 years to get your act together and I hope you are as happy in your life as I am in minegrin wave teddybear



Enduro Perth, Western Australia Australia
Ecoprincess: Just out of interest what do you see as a 49 year old womans life ?

I am asked to go on dates by men from the age of 35 upwards, I enjoy good company. I have sex regularly. I am told I am beautiful and I beleive I am. I have lots of friends both male and female. I have two motorbikes, a car and a van. I work as a truck driver and have my own accounts company, my own farm, my own mail order company and my own toiletries company, I have my own money, I have family including grandchildren who I see regularly. I have the respect of everyone I know and return the same. I have people who love me and have proved it and people that I love and have proved it.

I have everything I have ever wanted and more.

If you take the time to read the threads you will also know I am entering Dakar next year and will be going solo around the world on my motorbike after Dakar.

You?


Whoops I just stepped in an a bit of hostility it seems.

But for you Ecoprincess just a couple of things that stood out.
Firstly dates with 35yo's for you is just play with no future and as for sex regularly then that is great too if that's all you really want .

But as for "I have everything I ever wanted and more" well that is Eutopia a fantasy which simply doesn't exist.

Life and happiness are a journey and it is that journey that we need to enjoy and make the most of every opportunity as life is way too short.

Be gentle with yourself and all the revenge sex in the world won't make you feel good as it is only fleeting and very shallow. You need to love yourself and accept yoursel for who you are. You are a unique individual so never compare yourself with others just be happy with who you are so then when someone does get to real you then there is a goodl chance for an honest and happy future. All the best.




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