Artythis: Here's the thing.........i try to be as polite a person as can be when i find some one of interest, i send them a nice message and ask if they would like to get in contact and just talk and the like but the thing that gets me is that almost all of the people i have sent a message have never even responded to my messages, either they have deleted them never reading them or look at them and and veiw my profile and don't bother responding, another thing all of these people happen to be the ones who arn't in the forums and arn't really sincear about finding someone that their profile says their looking for, how can they know if they don't contact right?......anyways i think their to judgemental and in a way a bit shallow.
I could quite easily put down a long list of people who have done this but i woun't out of respect, im sure there are others who his has happend to all to offten and if so id like to hear about it and listen to you thoughts on this.
dont stress mate!!! i get it all the time, and at the start, i just moved on!!!! put it down to bad manners, then after a while i would wait until a week, still nothing, but i always get a reply back from them when you decide to say, " how rude and disrespectful are you" then you sure to get a reponse!!! works every time, noone can find the time to reply to say something like, "not interested" simple, but it shows manners, but boy they find the time, when you remind them, how rude, "not replying is"