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imhere83
Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:29 PM CST
Hi peoples need some advice.....A girl (who is 18) is after me, she seems to have wanted me for ages & I don't know whether to pursue it or not. Im 24, not usually bothered by an age gap but not too sure on what I should do.
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Rodles
Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:31 PM CST
imhere83 wrote:
Hi peoples need some advice.....A girl (who is 18) is after me, she seems to have wanted me for ages & I don't know whether to pursue it or not. Im 24, not usually bothered by an age gap but not too sure on what I should do.


Your not that old yourself bro you never know where it might lead no harm in dating?
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imhere83
Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:34 PM CST
Rodles wrote:
Your not that old yourself bro you never know where it might lead no harm in dating?


The other problem is I have a rule against dating friends ex's, which she happens to also be.
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kidatheart
Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:35 PM CST
The age difference isn't that big, I wouldn't let the deter you. thumbs up
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Rodles
Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:38 PM CST
imhere83 wrote:
The other problem is I have a rule against dating friends ex's, which she happens to also be.


live by your priniples young man, each time we don't our spirit dies that little bit more
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:39 PM CST
imhere83 wrote:
The other problem is I have a rule against dating friends ex's, which she happens to also be.
hmmm The age isn't a biggie. However being a friends ex might cut a bit.

I've always kept that sort of thing a no go zone.
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Lou79
Near Echuca, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:43 PM CST
I wouldn't date her. I have the same rule with friends ex's. Too complicated.

Good Luck with what ever option you take.
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imhere83
Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:43 PM CST
sxc666 wrote:
The age isn't a biggie. However being a friends ex might cut a bit.

I've always kept that sort of thing a no go zone.


I always have & at this stage I dont intend on breaking that rule.
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Rodles
Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:46 PM CST
imhere83 wrote:
I always have & at this stage I dont intend on breaking that rule.


there you go your answer
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imhere83
Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:48 PM CST
Thanks for the advice everyone, it has been noted. I dont think I'll go after it but it's always good to get opinions from other people
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:57 PM CST
imhere83 wrote:
Thanks for the advice everyone, it has been noted. I dont think I'll go after it but it's always good to get opinions from other people
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relaxin
somewhere, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 6:39 AM CST
Hi

i would be inclined to chat to your mate, before making any decisions.

Have always said the same thing but i do know a few couples who have gone ahead and done this and they seem to have survived as friends.

Doing the right things by mates is great. Just not all mates last a life time
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relaxin
somewhere, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 6:40 AM CST
and we are all some1's ex
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Angel13
Boronia, Victoria Australia
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 7:21 PM CST
Don't go there....i have a girlfriend who is now engaged to one of her ex girlfriends ex...and she is continuing to make make life really difficult for the pair of them even tho she has been with another partner for quite some time. You don't need the headaches that go along with it scold
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kizzy27
Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 8:06 PM CST
some times we dont chose our true love the first time round ...I think if you have genuine interest in this girl then you owe it to yourself to see...
You may just be blowin away your true love ,,,
neva know if you neva go
jmo
Kizzylips
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cheekz70
Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:35 AM CST
Go for it! There is no reason why you can't see how things go. You never know what might happen, this girl may be your dream girl, but you must have some feelings for her otherwise you wouldnt be asking.

When i was 24 i went out with a 17 yr old. we ended up having 2 kids and stayed together for 4 yrs. My last boyfriend was 10 yrs my junior so dont let age deter you from being with someone that you like.

After all age is only numbers.hug
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maybesoon
brisbane, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 18, 2008, 3:39 PM CST
"each time we don't our spirit dies that little bit more"

very good belief this mate!!! I agree...
Rodles wrote:
live by your priniples young man, each time we don't our spirit dies that little bit more
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blondeaozichick
Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Posted: Aug 29, 2008, 9:00 AM CST
imhere83 wrote:
The other problem is I have a rule against dating friends ex's, which she happens to also be.


maybe you should see how your friend feels about it all

if he not impressed he might not be your mate for much longer!

me personally.. I wouldn't want any of my friends ex's .. eeeewwwwwww
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Ralf74
Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
Posted: Sep 25, 2008, 8:56 AM CST
If you have to think this hard about it I really don't think you are committed enough and she isn't worth it to you, let it go. Move on.moping
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Sep 25, 2008, 3:26 PM CST
blondeaozichick wrote:
maybe you should see how your friend feels about it all

if he not impressed he might not be your mate for much longer!

me personally.. I wouldn't want any of my friends ex's .. eeeewwwwwww
thumbs up Yeah its just not right in my opinion.
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