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Twodawgz
melbourne, Victoria Australia
Posted: Jul 19, 2008, 5:32 AM CST
relaxin wrote:
frustrating is an under statement.

but i am hoping that things may be caught in time.

thanks for your advise


Cool good luck..
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bourbon
Sunshine Coast, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 19, 2008, 6:09 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
I heard somewhere that the majority of people who talk about it don't end up doing it.

Its usually the ones that show now sign and 'bang' they're gone.

As a friend I would drag her to the Doctor and say you need help.

Seriously though no-one can win this battle for her she needs to want to get better herself.


Yep... the one's who make a lot of noise are generally attention seekers and rarely go through with it.

The committed one's are generally somewhat withdrawn but with no other apparent signals of what they have in mind. The first you know about it is when they are gone.

I think that she wants attention more than anything else.
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relaxin
somewhere, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 19, 2008, 6:31 AM CST
bourbon wrote:
Yep... the one's who make a lot of noise are generally attention seekers and rarely go through with it.

The committed one's are generally somewhat withdrawn but with no other apparent signals of what they have in mind. The first you know about it is when they are gone.

I think that she wants attention more than anything else.


she may be but i am not willing to risk it
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maybesoon
brisbane, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 19, 2008, 4:20 PM CST
Twodawgz wrote:
Hey if i was in your situation id try and encourage her to see a councillor or psychiatrist to find and rectify the problem that lies beneath, maybe she can benefit from this if shes so worried of the medication.


yes i agree!! its whats inderneath thats where the problem is, you can give drugs till the cows come home, but its not sorting out where the problem is!!! take this guys advice, and i also agree with another reader, :if someone is talking bout how they gonna end it... think they are looking for "reaction" then to take "action" themselves...moping
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relaxin
somewhere, Queensland Australia
Posted: Jul 19, 2008, 11:08 PM CST
maybesoon wrote:
yes i agree!! its whats inderneath thats where the problem is, you can give drugs till the cows come home, but its not sorting out where the problem is!!! take this guys advice, and i also agree with another reader, :if someone is talking bout how they gonna end it... think they are looking for "reaction" then to take "action" themselves...


Surprisingly this morning she is a whole different person, cant quite get with the mood swings though.
It seems like she has self dignosed what she has and to what degree it is effecting her. Bit of a whirlwind thing happening,i find it confusing.

Just decided to be supportive and listen but not suggest anything but doctors and counciling.
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