well i dont think this is refering to a first date situation only, so heres one for ya... its going back to our first dates so its all relevant...this was with my last girlfriend,
it was love at first sight type of crap,

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we'd been together about 2 months then it was her b/day,
so i got a room at a motel (romantic hey?) in the city so we didnt have to taxi home, id been to the room during the day and prepared an ice cream cake and put those number candles on it.. wacked it in the fridge ready to light, warmed the spa ready for later...
i picked her up and took her out for dinner, went to the casino, we had some drinks and did this and that.. then went back to sleep at the moey,
when we got the there, i ripped out the cake, lite the candles, sang happy b/day to her and did some things with that cake it was never designed for, then jumped in the spa, kissy kissy, then got on the bed, rumpy pumpy.. had a good night actually...so going out of your way to impress and please them certainly has its rewards...
now go easy on me fellas, i was young, i know beter now,
treat em mean keep em keen..

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