Ralf74: All of you women look awesome, I am the ugly duckling here. I am only 34, I look 44 and it doesn't help that no matter what I do, I take the worst photo and it was the morning after the night before in my head shot...that's the best I have on offer!
Any wonder with a haircut like that.
Granny cuts are meant for grannys.
Grow some hair and learn to use the camera properly.