relaxin: Dont guys only react to sexually expressive women over the short term and not generally wanting to stay with them over a long term?
Not me anyway, can't speak for the rest. I like to know that she has a healthy attitude towards sex and isn't all shy and reserved about it. Better chance of it lasting a lifetime if there's a good sex life with an adventurous woman.
To me it says a lot about how a person feels about themselves overall, not just sexually. Confidence, healthy self esteem and an open mind go a long way. If you're accepting the labels others place on you or anyone else, you have bigger problems to worry about.
Sexuality is part of being human, for men and women alike. I find it's the ones that are sexually repressed that are the ones who really have the problem and are usually the ones pointing their fingers. I almost feel sorry for them. How awful they must feel living under conditions placed upon them by perceived societal norms and the guilt for stepping out of them.
Who are you really living your life for and trying to please?
