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cgd

Well I think your HOT if i was a dude ide date ya in a heartbeat !!!!
My only advise ...look for a local , contact, chat , meet,then either keep or pass....

Next....
JMO
Kizzy
BTW
I JUST KNOW IM GONNA GET CRITISIZED TO BITS ...

but do I care ....nup

Are you trying to work out if there is something wrong with you?

- NO WAY!

Your photos great.



If you want to know if its right to point out faults of others?

yes, but tactfully.

kizz i think youhave the most amazingly quik wtted personality it shines threw
i think your photo is a little fuzzy but a good one ,you come across as thow your are on a path to find that certain person, and that you are a go getter
am i right ?

if i was to look at my photo i would say change your photo it looks like you have deep set eyes but i know you dont because of the other photos on your prfile and fgs smile properly and put on some spray tan thats all ,the only reason it on thee still is the boys like it.
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you can better yourself by believing in what you do , if there are annoying habits you have that you know of , assress these , and you might find that smaller problems once overlooked disappear!

Maybe a change in hobbies , becoming more active , fit and healthy , i know from experience that a change in lifestyle can open doors previously closed and unobtainable!

usually photos can show attractiveness , but pics dont show the "true" person inside , its places like forums ( for us internet users ) that can reveal the person behind the picture!

Hope this helped

Lok

hey Lok

there is nothing wrong with your pic... I've never thought so anyway.
As for the dark bits.... everyone know's sometimes there are shadows in photo's, it's hard to get good light sometimes.

mmmm Kizzy..... Lok rides a motorbike
and he lives near me

hey guys thank you but its not just about me, i am happy with who i am, its the personality hidden behind the picture, its very hard to now if some one is worthy of your time just by looking at your picture, and pictures dont give a true perseption of a person, like all people it makes me nervy when you are taking photos at face value


cgd

thats only true in some cases .... lots of ppl just say whatever may b appropiate at the time and not care how they portray themselves on here. so long as it is cool and funny but may not be how they actually are

wooooo up there gal

why would you want to be remodeled ?

wtf are you thinking?

geez any guy would be lucky to have you

It is hard to tell what a persons personality is like just by looking at a pic.
You kinda get a mental pic of what you want that person to be like... well I do anyway. If you were to talk to them on the phone rather than on here, usually more personality comes out of that person.
I've noticed you guys are pretty funny on here but you also have a serious side as well that comes out every now and then. Even tho I haven't met you I already have an idea of each of your personalities.
No matter what your pic looks like, each person will have there own ideas of what they think you might be like (if that makes sense )

As for bettering yourself if someone thinks you have faults... if you decide.. oh yeah, I don't like it when I do that, then maybe try to improve.
Everyone has there own little faults and irritations and if someone tells you they don't like it about you, then fine, but you shouldn't have to fix yourself to keep them happy. They should accept you for who you are.... faults and all. If you tried to keep everyone happy you would go nuts.

JMO

people if you are in your thirties and not happy with who you are, there is often not a lot of chance that you will change

I tend to disagree there Bubbles....
I think change can come to anyone at any age if it is in fact them that wants to change something, sometimes a pivital moment in ones life dictates a change sometimes its just a turning point when courage finnally wins thru.Some people are in situations that they feel they have no control over,until one day it occurs to them they do in fact have the power & ability to be the person they were always destined to be.
Whatever age you are if there is a real desire for change it is very achievable .
I speak from personal experiance .
JMO
Kizzy

good point Kizz

i think it takes a good freind to let you know your faults
just recently i was told one about my self , i did not relize that my habbit was so irritating , so i am in the process of trying to change it because it irritates me aswell that i do it .
its all for the better good .

i dont think that if have to many issues just afew that will make life easier if i cange them.

my personal skills are out the window as i have not had to have to many adult conversations over the last few years i have distanced my self from people in fear of getting hurt. thats why i am here to become more socail and interact with adults



cgd

Well you are doing well cgd
good luck with it all