so with my above post in mind.. how about a flirty 30's party theme lou ?? (found this on that website I posted the link for earlier

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Break the ice with a Flirt Party that’s cheeky and fun for all. Here’s some advice and tips for holding a Flirt Party that your guests will surely love.
A flirt party is also a great way to introduce single friends to one another.
Costume Suggestions
To add a bit of fun to the night, make it a costume party with the theme of famous couples such as Cleopatra and Anthony, Romeo and Juliet, etc. Select costumes for the boys and girls and send the details to diff people, not knowing who their costumed partner will be.
Another great costume theme is to have guests arrive dressed as famous lotharios and Seductresses such as Casanova, Don Juan, Aphrodite, Catherine the Great, and more.
Tell guests to dress as seductively as they can. Holding a lingerie party is a great way to have fun. Guests can dress up in silk teddies, boxers, seductive bras and more.
Decorations
Add mood lighting by dimming the lights and set a cosy atmosphere by placing candles about the house.
Arrange throw rugs about the house along with cushions. Try and set the mood for people to talk amongst themselves or sneak away for a discreet chat.
Set the mood with music by well known romantics such as Barry White, Burt Bacharach or Dean Martin. Lounge music is always good for a mellow laid back feel.
Food Suggestions
Serve luscious food that’s seductive and rich. Oysters are an obvious favourite for all romantics. Caviar and champagne would also be a nice touch.
Set candles about the food table and try to provide a lavish spread of food. Avoid messy food so the eager hopefuls can make their best impression.
Games & Activities
Spin the bottle is a perfect game for a flirt party and a good way to break the ice among people.
Truth or Dare Chocolates:
Prepare chocolates by melting both white and dark chocolate in separate bowls.
On a sheet of foil, paint the white chocolate in the shapes of T and D for Truth and Dare.
When the white chocolate has set, add the dark chocolate over the letters to make chocolate drops.
Offer them face down to the guests so they don’t know whether they’ll get Truth or Dare.
Before eating the chocolate they have to rise to the challenge of whatever they have picked.
For inspiration try using the following characters and themes:
Don Juan
Casanova
Anthony & Cleopatra
Romeo & Juliet
Catherine the Great
Madonna
Warren Beatty
Readers Comments
Hot party, peoples!! Anyone else looking for an idea or something, go with this one!