kizzy27: A friend just reminded me That i didnt get around to telling you all about my date with Mr 12 yrs younger...
well he was a total Jerk I dont want to go into it right now perhaps another time but ill say this ...
girls , dont think that by just chattin , coffee etc that you can asertain ones character & secondly never allow your self to be ii a vunerable location/situation with a virtual stranger....( no i wasnt raped ) but he just didnt take the fact that i didnt wish to see him again well.
Kizzy
Oh hell yes, safety first.
In one case when I had just started dating from online and I was really nervous , this chap just gave me strange vibes, so I simply asked him to wait in the pub for 15 mins after I left. He was fine, said he understood he was a stranger and everything, asked for my number and I thought he was so nice and understanding about it that I thought I may have misjudged him, nearly gave him my
real phone number

but thought no - no chemistry no number

SAFETY FIRST,if they dont understand this don't go
Kizzy