Does Age really matter?

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Lenaguess Royan, Poitou-Charentes France
Ralf74: I have to admit it is a mental barrier for me. I am not sure why I feel it is an issue but I really don't want anyone younger than myself or over 10 yrs older. I think it is the generation thing. All I know is that I have been a different person myself from decade to decade with different stages and experiences in life. I wouldn't judge anyone else for it though, it's just not for me.


I agree with you Ralf74!



MellieMels Sydney, New South Wales Australia
I'm beginning to think that it's not the physical age in years that is important but the mental age.. Although in saying that my preference is for someone around about the same age but a few years older - which is more so a maturity thing than anything else.. Definitely don't want a toy boy or someone old enough to be my father - just my equal..



thetallone1 West Footscray, Victoria Australia
Age does not matter, as it all depends on the two, that is in a relationship. If you love each other and want a relationship to form then go for it, as it is your life and no one can tell you how to live your life, just be carefull and take time in forming the relationship and follow your heart and think befor you take the next step. All that I can say is good on you and all the best in your future
thetallone peace angel devil wave conversing
cowgirldancer The Patch, Victoria Australia
age doesn't matter if it is ment to be age will not be a barrier

for me it is mentle age then age apperance
, some men at the age of 40 look 30 and some look much older like 60, on here i think that there are few lies being entered for the age but beuty is in the eye of the beholder


cgd



aberfoyle Coffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia
I used to be married to a guy 10 years older than me, and age was not the problem....the nationality difference did become a big problem though.

However......I have a little teensy problem being come onto by guys who are way way way younger than me. Just don't seem to be able to get my head around the whole 'cradle snatching' concept


laugh



SmilingInside Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
I hope you're older than 26 and live outside NT......



SmilingInside Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
I think it's more about the potential for gratuitous sex than the age difference......



pauljb72 wollongong, New South Wales Australia
kizzy27: Well Hi guys thought ide like a little feedback on this topic...
Ive recently been approached by a man 34 I am 45 nearing 46.
He is a very together 34 owns his own home good career etc Never married no children ,he cannot have children ,but likes them .
I am going to meet him on friday for lunch.
Ok so my question to you all is
does an age gap of over ten years really matter, has anyone been involved with a younger or older person,what are the benifits(apart from the obvious)lol, what are the downsides.
This man says he is looking for a long term relationship.
& the fact that I am older actually appeals because i am settled & Know what I want..
Ok so there it is ...
Kizzy
if he's serious kizz the age dont mean squat. if he's a good sort then take it on. age is only for the old.
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
pauljb72: if he's serious kizz the age dont mean squat. if he's a good sort then take it on. age is only for the old.



I took it on.....

then let it go....

not a good sort ..thumbs down
but I now date younger men sooo was good experiance

Kizzylips



PeacefulnFun Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Well done Kizzy, life is to be experienced and savoured. Each mment and time.

I went out with a 34 year old as well, and it didnt work out. And it wasnt about the age.

We are our memories.

Ash
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
PeacefulnFun: Well done Kizzy, life is to be experienced and savoured. Each mment and time.

I went out with a 34 year old as well, and it didnt work out. And it wasnt about the age.

We are our memories.

Ash



Hey Ash wave nice to meet you, I think we all need to open ourselves to new experiances & possibilities ..I mean you only live once I intend to enjoy the hell outta it !



pauljb72 wollongong, New South Wales Australia
kizzy27: I took it on.....

then let it go....

not a good sort ..
but I now date younger men sooo was good experiance

Kizzy
go girl. get em young get rid of them noy much after. made the last part up.
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
pauljb72: go girl. get em young get rid of them noy much after. made the last part up.



well actually I found out he was a tosser soo wouldnt matter what age he was he wasnt gettin a third date with me !!!
He didnt take it real well ..
but you get that...



pauljb72 wollongong, New South Wales Australia
kizzy27: well actually I found out he was a tosser soo wouldnt matter what age he was he wasnt gettin a third date with me !!!
He didnt take it real well ..
but you get that...
ah well if he's not kizz material. hes not good stock.laugh



aberfoyle Coffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia
pauljb72: ah well if he's not kizz material. hes not good stock.


scold Oh you big SUCK UP



PeacefulnFun Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Age does have one advantage. Wisdom... wise enough to see what is coming, or where we have been before. Some experiences we dont want to live again and some we do.
My 34yr old was a control sex freak and as much as she was lovely person there are parts i do not want to remember.




pauljb72 wollongong, New South Wales Australia
aberfoyle: Oh you big SUCK UP
would give you yhe same accolade. but arent real good dealin with myself am i.blushing



aberfoyle Coffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia
pauljb72: would give you yhe same accolade. but arent real good dealin with myself am i.



lips
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
aberfoyle: Oh you big SUCK UP


mmmm now why do you think he is suckin up 2 me Aber ?


free drinks ?confused dunno



aberfoyle Coffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia
kizzy27: mmmm now why do you think he is suckin up 2 me Aber ?free drinks ?



cheers Probably....let's have em all before he makes it over to the pub laugh




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