beh1972: An interesting post, while there are some valid points in it, it still looks to me as if it was written by the views of one person.
It all comes to the holistic package of the other person. Like for most things, there is a balance, as in it is possible to get over the top.
But for the record,
Smile- linked to personality, and humour.
Delicate nature - at what point is it too delicate? it can be 'over done'. Quite frankly do I like a woman who can open her own jars, especially when the seal is already gone!
Humor- Important, but it has to match each others expectations of 'humour'.
Materialism - This was the comment I agreed with most of all.
Personality- well duh.
Eyes - I have to say never considered it until I briefly dated someone who never looked into mine when talking. Very off putting
Hair - not a consideration. (unless there are nits) Although v.long hair = v.long time to get ready.
Body- beauty might get someone though the door, but their traits are what matters long term. For every single drop dead gorgeous woman out there, there are lots of blokes who couldn't put up with her cr@p.
well yeah.. but in saying that.. I as a woman could reverse it and want the same things.. however.. as to your point about written by one person.. er.. yeah I would say it was.. but.. aren't all writings like that? unless it specifically states it is a collaborative effort.... and also note.. I had to reduce it to 4000 characters cos thats all you can post.. grrr.. anyway.. didn't take anything away to change the gist of it .. but it did say it was based on surveys and research etc.. so I'm assuming that means they did a poll on this particular site and that is what the MAJORITY of men said .. and for the records.. I didn't write it