It seems to me how we look has nothing to do with whether we are attractive to men. I say this for these reasons:
1. Stand outside a primary school and watch all the married, once married, or in-a-sexual-relationship-resulting-in-the-birth-of-a-child women picking up their children.
The women come in all different shapes and sizes. Some are drop dead gorgeous, some are downright ugly and everyone in between. All of them must have attracted a man into their lives at some time or other.
2. Most men don't have a problem "getting it up", even if they are having sex with someone who doesn't meet their perfect woman standards.
They still get hard, get hot and excited, orgasm and ejaculate no matter what you look like. So why such a fuss about our breast size, our smile, our eyes, the colour and length of our hair, weight?
4. Some men have the capacity to select whomever they like as a sexual partner and naturally they will score those who closest fit their ideal image of a woman but most men do not have this capacity. So there is a good chance for everyone to find someone.
5. Every day women and some men are raped and sexually assaulted. Research shows that it makes no difference what their age is (even very elderly people are attacked), their nationality, their socio-economic background, their educational background -
nor what they look like. Based on the premise that all men want sex with the perfect looking women one would expect that good looking women would be the main target for sexual assaults and rapes - but this is just not true.