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whatever13: well most guys hear you the first time and we are either going to to it later when we can be bothered or are hoping that if we ignore you for long enough you'll give up on the idea. mostly when you persist on the same thing for long enough it makes us uncomfortable ....like its your mum asking and all us guys feel guilty about that " mother complex" ....she nursed us cared for us etc so all that guilt is transferred onto you and your request...its about here where EGO steps up and says his piece ....and your request having unearthed all these uncomfortable mother related issues is bruising the fragile ego and his sense of power and control so we coined the term nagging as a way to diffuse you and belittle your request reasonable or not into a neat little bundle called nagging...it makes it easier for us to pretend that we are in control so stroking our ego's and strutting around like the rooster in the hen house.
after all it does seem that its all part of a big game of point scoring and oneupmanship between the sexes. its amazing that the human race has made it this far.....its just unfortunate that the rules we tend to play by are all inclusive and tend to favour hurt feelings and broken hearts.......or maybe I'd just rather not mow the lawn today...lol

psuedonym: nagging = asking repeatedly for something to be done, that we know full well you are capable of doing yourself , or no-one other than the nagger gives a shit about

shelley_bee: Are you for real? Cum-on you have got to be joking...seriously, im a lady and i know what nagging is. You dont need to be a scientist to work out whats a nagger. If you have to constantly tell a male to do something and he don't, cheeze just get rid of the loozer...no lady has to keep repeating herself, and sound like she's nagging for no loozer. In fact if you have to tell a man to do something every day, trust me...he is not worth your precious time or effort...just get rid of the loozer. No lady is a nagger, that's just a pathetic word that was made up by a pathetic little man to justify his own b.u.l.l.s.h.i.t. Women do not nag....thats just a phrase weak men like to use to justify their own crap. Stay hard ladies, don't listen to a mans guilt talk.

aberfoyle: Got to admit, that sounds kind of good - altough I still would like the toilet seat put down

Luckylad2: its nagging when you ask us to do something you already know we dont want to do, and you keep asking.

And you know that if we say no we are in the dog house. Thats why men build sheds

PeacefulnFun: There is solution to this whole nagging thing! But dont tell anyone i told you.

Ask once politely, ask twice politely,then ask a third time politely and remind him or her that you have asked three times. And when there is no response.

Pay someone to do it for you and give him/ her the bill.And you dont need to get three quotes.

aberfoyle: Hi Lucky, couldn't go without saying hello haven't crossed paths with you for ages.

Sheds::::: ha, my ex took too long to build his shed, so I had to get rid of him anyway Cya......got to go

sxc666: Where is Abe she hasn't been on for a couple of days

Ralf74: hey sxc, check your email for response