blondeaozichick: so what ya saying.. men will screw anything no matter they look like just to dip the wick??
What I am saying is that if they dont respect you and want it on the first date, chances are that it isnt about looks but about getting their end away.
If a guy is happy to wait for when you are ready, chances are is that he is attracted to you one way or another.
If I really like a girl, I will happily wait. If I dont, then it is a matter of trying it out, if she says no, then move on.