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Im a slut and i aint listed..

your a male and allowed to be a slut so men aren't listed

only women who enjoy sex and give it up freely are labelled as sluts ..
well that's what another thread said ...

don't tell me its not true

Why do women expect sex on a first date ?



simple !


Because we know we will get it


Go On tell me im wrong....




Kizzy

Well put babe!

Wouldn't even try it's the sad truth we males almost always say yes to sex when its offered. we have allowed ourselves to be programmed by the withholding theory. It has been perfected and used to the optimum effect by at least 90% of women. Some use it to get out of trouble,influence decisions or sleazin their way into groups of people that can, and will be selectively used to benefit her. This cannot be denied I have seen it first hand in action so many times over the years and it pisses me off that we males and some females are continually manipulated so easily and effectively.

Yeah well you know its not fair so ill clue you in ... its the perception that you boyz have got wrong you see...
Us women want sex as much as you boyz do !!!You just think we dont based on your long term failed relationships when you were so young n silly or just not clued in enough that you didnt treat your woman right so she withheld sex in retaliation to that behaiviour...
Hence the farkkk if its on offer i better take it cause i dont know when the farkk i ts gonna come my way again syndrome
The trouble is that because this has been the norm for so long alot of women are used to it , it is a way for them to gain the upper hand in a relationship , this inturn stems from needing that position in the first place thru hurt betayal & abuse.
A major problem because it then put all you guys on the same level , even the good guys ....
So that you must feel like before you even enter into a potential relationship you have to first prove yourself !!!
This happens with women too , we have to prove were not gold diggers , fridgitte, bitches , nags.insecure,cheaters based on whats happened in the others past,
We are all in the same boat boyz really we are..

The trick how ever is this ...for both sexes

suffering is optional, I choose not to eva!
let it go
all the shit
take only the good from all your failures
bury the bad
remember that we all want the same thing at the end of the day
to love & be loved.
& the only way your gonna get that is to give it first!
JMO
Kizzy

Ok wow I never knew that women wanted sex on the first date I always thought it was the guy, but if women want sex on the first date or one of the first few dates they should just come straight out and say it. We are guys we can't read your mind so how are we supposed to know you want to have sex???

I didn't expect to get sex on the first date but I did

really?? wow.. I'm sooooooo surprised!!


you been going on about this guy for ages!!!!

yes... it was very built up

just a tad

and how happy am I now

hmmmm a women that thinks like me!!!!! by the time the 20th date comes along, they are long gone, im back on the frist date again...

hi...
I agree with you.I dont know what to say about those ,who act like that but I think it's awful even less than a mounth to have sex with someone even you be with him everynight.
thats all..
I think it's better for u to choose the right person who appreciate to be with a person like u and your idias.
good luck
NASDINKA

Hey girls! take care it's unfair to do so on the first date. This is in fact what boys look for not the girls. You should take care! most boys wanting sex on first date are not reliable!

firstly i'm looking forward to my next first date, it's been a long time

secondly i'll be happy to get through a first date without any bruising or abrasions, and hopefully not having had to endure any verbal abuse.

so sex on a first date??????.............. highly unlikely