1. Do not go to the movies....there is no easy escape route
2.No dinners on the 1st date.... too long and messy when trying to escape!
3. Do not go to his place.......you know wat that means!
No seriously just meet him in a public place have a coffee or a drink, and see if you like eachother first, oh and always have backup organized just in case? have a friend standing by, get them to call you after about 30mins of meeting him, if alls good at that time great, but as a double backup and your unsure of him get them to re call you in another 30 mins with some excuse and a code word for "I WANT OUT OF THIS" that way you can politely make your excuses and leave. ok thats the negative side of things, the positive is you may really hit it off and thats when the phone calls become annoying